Happy New Dear?

I know we’re only getting started…but are you still with me?

This morning, while the house was uber-duper-super-duper quiet, I spied a friend.  Just as the sun rose, our backyard, which has been a haven for dear deer for years and years picked up a New Year’s dear deer visitor. 

(I have now officially tested your patience and it’s only the first day of the New Year, dear readers. May I claim sleep deprivation, once again, as the culprit? 😉)

Our first deer of the new year was a shy girl.  I could barely move a muscle as I maneuvered from my comfy spot to grab my phone.  She gazed at me as I grumbled and mumbled, trying not to spill hot coffee on myself. 

Stalwart like a dear deer statue, she watched me.  So I watched her and eventually she turned her gaze from the goofy lady with the bad, bad bedhead to one of the lone and solitary apples on the ground.  No doubt frosty from the cold snap and snow we experienced yesterday but she was un-deer-terred.  She munched and when she finished, she gave me another long look as I snapped her photo. 

I’m giving you two versions…my first glimpse (where I nearly tossed my caffeine in my lap – see pic on the left – above) and her close up, glamour shot, to the right.  Same gaze.  Same dear, dear deer.

When my dad died many moons ago, I fancied deer sightings on holidays and momentous days – his birthday, mine, the start of the new year – as heralds of good fortune and this morning’s visitor?  She didn’t disappoint. 

Hello, papa.  Thanks for sending a dear one to greet me. Hugs and love to all as we begin a new year…from me and my morning friend.

Vicki 😊

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44 responses to “Happy New Dear?”

  1. Sweet! Happy New Year, lady!

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    1. Right back at you, DEAR Rhonda! 🥰

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  2. Glad to hear you were pleased by the deer. Could she be a spy, trying to figure out how the muse is always with you? No, that is probably part of your essence. We are all your beneficiaries. Thanks, Vicki.

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    1. Oh…what a generous thought. I suspect she was more drawn in by the odd lady (moi!) and my morning visage, bad hair and bathrobe! Thanks so much for the smile, though. 🥰

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  3. Your Dad sent her for you. 😊💝

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    1. I love that thought, Jane. Makes me so happy! ❤️🥰❤️xo!

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  4. Oh, how sweet! How do you like them apples? Pretty darn good! Thanks for sharing and the giggles along the way. Happy New Year, dear friend!

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    1. LOL! Them apples! 🤪 I like ‘em! Thanks, Wynne. 🥰❤️🥰

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  5. Thanks for starting my New Year out with a dear deer story. I’m sure that the dear deer didn’t mind the bed head one bit—and I’m so happy for you that you did not start the year with a lap full of coffee. PS: do you think they could possibly make the emoji’s any smaller? 🦌

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    1. LOL!! That IS one petite little ole dear deer! I agree and I’ll send you two in reply…one’s Jules and the other is the Vickster. 🦌🤪🦌
      ❤️❤️❤️

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  6. Maybe she was hoping you’d come out and offer her a New Year’s Toast, possibly a little champaign to celebrate the new year. Little know fact, deer have a taste for sparkling wine. Ha, ha. Just me trying to be funny, but I like your guess much better. A sign of dear old dad, sending good fortune your way.

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    1. Oh!!! Maybe she wanted one of our reindeer cookies! Goodness knows we’ve had plenty of those around….LOL! And with a little champagne toast? Woohoo! 🤪

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      1. Deer know how to celebrate. Where did you think the phrase “Deer in the headlights” comes from? Obviously when a deer has a little bit too much bubbly. Ha, ha.

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        1. Oh…you’re on a roll! They like the spotlight, eh? They need DDD — designated deer drivers?!? 😜

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  7. Glad to hear you got a little snow this time, too. Even though deer have been a constant presence in my backyards (plural, because there have been more than one) for years, I always try to snap pics on my phone. It’s probably out of habit more than anything else.

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    1. I know they can be a nuisance but we love the deer. And you’re right! It’s unusual for us to see a single lady. They’re usually in duos or trios. 🥰Happy New Year and all the best to you and Tara!

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    2. Hi Mark, sorry to pop in here uninvited but I’ve been enjoying your posts, writing spectacularly funny notes but I think they’re all sitting in your spam file because, like ghosts, they disappear as soon as I hit send. Hugs, C

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  8. Better a deery than dreary morning. Lovely sighting and glad you had that dear moment!

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    1. That’s funny and fab, Ab! Yes! Better deery than dreary any day! 🥰

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  9. What a lovely start to your morning. You are so lucky to have such dear, beautiful visitors to keep you company with your morning coffee ☕️ ❤️. Happy New Year dear Vicki xxx

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    1. Thank you, dear Brenda!
      🥰🥰🥰

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  10. I like your delight in seeing the deer in your back yard, and for connecting it to Sonny. A good sign as you begin the new year 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Dave. Love your thoughts! 🥰

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  11. What a great way to start off the New Year ❤️ Wishing you a rewarding and fulfilling one 💥 🦌

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    1. Same to you, dear Margaret! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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  12. We periodically see deer in our urban environment, and it is a wonderful surprise when they make themselves known (as long as they aren’t on the highways, of course). It is a gentle, peaceful reminder we share this land with them, and we’re all part of a much bigger world “out there” than just our town.

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    1. I love every bit of what you shared, Bruce. Gentle, loving creatures. Yes! Happy New Year to you! Thank you so much! 🥰

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  13. Oh deer! So cute! Where my daughter is living in BC, there are deer all over the campus. When I was there, I walked out the front entrance of her building and saw dozens of them along the path. The best story of all, though, is the one that came right up to her window one night. It tapped its antlers on the window and her poor little kitten went crazy. She caught it on video and sent it to us. So funny.

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    1. Oh!!! That’s an amazing experience—I think I would’ve been freaked out alongside the cat! Thanks for sharing, Michelle. 🥰

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      1. It was priceless. Luckily Laura saw the antlers first and started filming.

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        1. A once in a lifetime encounter! I love it. Give my best to Laura. 🥰❤️🥰

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  14. What a wonderful way to start the new year! You got a gloriously dear visitor! And my January 1st morning began with a cat massage! Ha! I think we’re both going to be lucky and blessed throughout 2024! Big hugs to you! Mona

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    1. Love that we have that in common, Mona — starting 2024 off with love and wonder! Big hugs back to you! 🥰❤️🥰

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  15. So cool that you get deer in your yard and even cooler that they connect you with your dad 😎

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    1. Thanks, Todd! Yes! Happy New Year, my friend. 🥰

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  16. Deer sightings are always exciting! Sometimes, at dusk, I see a group of them on the side of the interstate, and I remember why so many neighborhoods are called Deer: Deer Lake, Deerwood, Deer Crossing. We’ve edged them out.

    Anywho, I didn’t mean to deerter your dear post lol I’ll make a deertour, now, and say, this is beautiful! I’m glad you were able to snap a photo ❤

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    1. Can you hear me giggling?!? You and your lovely deertour! I love it. And yes…haven’t we edged them out!? Agree! Hugs and love to you! 🥰

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  17. Deer are such mountaineers making their way into our hearts. And it looks like they have found happiness in your backyard – how wonderful is that!

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    1. Love that! Mountaineer-deer! 🥰❤️🥰

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  18. Oh how I love this Vicki! My Mom visits are usually signaled by a hummingbird sighting. It’s so surreal to see one in the dead of winter, all alone, hovering by my window. I do the same, “Hello Mama.” Now Dad comes through the light. He turns my bedside lamp on and off a few times as if the bulb has come loose and I know, he’s come to say hello. It could be my imagination but I have designated it as real. Hugs, C

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    1. I say so, too — nothing could be MORE real, right!?! I love your moments with them. So good! ❤️🥰❤️

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