With gratitude galore to the talented and generous author Diana (D. Wallace Peach), I’m sharing her review of “Surviving Sue”:
Surviving Sue by Dr. Vicki Atkinson
This is a riveting memoir by Vicki Atkinson chronicling life with her mother Sue, who suffered from alcoholism, depression, Munchausen by Proxy, dementia, and Alzheimer’s. It covers the author’s life from childhood through adulthood and it’s a heartbreaking, courageous, and frequently compassionate account of Sue’s life as told through her daughter’s eyes.
It describes a fractious relationship that many people would have abandoned as soon as they were able, except that Vicki’s disabled sister Lisa is in the mix and the focus of Sue’s obsession. I sensed that Lisa was the glue that kept the author engaged despite how she was verbally and emotionally abused. The author’s strength and perseverance are remarkable, and I was completely caught up in the story.
It’s also an honest account, sharing Sue’s strengths and positive points, and I could see how many of her destructive and manipulative choices were attempts to compensate for deep-seated insecurities and maintain control of her own life. It doesn’t forgive her behavior, in my opinion, but it helps understand it.
Out of necessity, Vicki’s role changes from vilified daughter to emergency manager and advocate as Sue’s mental health deteriorates. The importance of a strong team of medical, legal, and residential supports became clear, and I could relate to many of the challenges, as a result of dealing with my own aging parents.
Though not a short read, I finished this book in one day and highly recommend it to readers who enjoy memoirs about growing up in difficult situations and persevering with courage, fortitude, and compassion.
I’m humbled! One of the most unexpected gifts since “Surviving Sue” debuted is the kindness of readers and writers who inspire, and Diana is all that…and much more.
Please take a look at the other terrific books Diana’s showcased in her June Book Reviews, and of course, follow Diana if you’re not already. Inspiration awaits!
Vicki 😊
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Victoria Ponders 
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