“Surviving Sue”: The Synopsis


My mom, Sue, had fond memories of fishing with her dad – so much so that I knew I wanted to select one of two photos of her fishing for the cover of “Surviving Sue”.  I finally chose the pic (see below) for the cover because her smirk and ‘over the shoulder’ grin look joyous even though she had very few days of happiness as a child. 


A close runner-up for cover art was the photo I’ve snipped in above – mom holding her ‘catch of the day’.  Her smile conveys pride but years later, she shared that she felt like she was the provider in the family the day she had her ‘big catch’.  Her father had been out of work for months and the fish Sue caught that day became dinner for a couple of nights for their family of six.  One of the threads in Sue’s story is hunger.  Pervasive hunger on a physical and emotional level.

In today’s post, I’m sharing the synopsis of “Surviving Sue”, which will be available for pre-sale (more about that in the weeks to come) in June:

“Surviving Sue” is a heart-wrenching story about the torment of keeping secrets, told from the daughter’s perspective as she navigated her mother’s mental health and addiction issues, while trying to shield and protect her disabled sister.  “Surviving Sue” is about the power of storytelling to build resiliency, a guidebook for others who struggle with complex family issues including Alzheimer’s, depression, alcoholism, developmental and physical disabilities.

Thank you so much for your continued interest in the story of my mom’s life. As we inch closer to the release date, I’ll provide snippets of Sue – here and there – to reveal some of the reasons why I think her story was worth writing…and I hope, once you’re able…you’ll find it was a story worth reading.

My post on Heart of the Matter today digs into the aspect of growing…by writing about family.  Tricky business, for sure, but over the next few weeks, I’ll share the a-ha’s I experienced as I challenged myself to stretch and grow. 

Many thanks,

Vicki 😊



48 responses to ““Surviving Sue”: The Synopsis”

  1. drgeraldstein Avatar
    drgeraldstein

    The cover photo couldn’t be more adorable. How is it possible that such innocent creatures become what they become? But of course, your book will answer that question, and, I’ll bet do your mom some honor despite everything.

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    1. Can you see me smiling, Dr. Stein? I hope that exact intention will be apparent for readers…that they see my desire to honor my mother as someone who did the best she could with the resources she had. Just as you said, ‘despite everything’. Yes, yes. 🥰

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  2. I love the photo you’ve chosen for your book. I look forward to reading more about Sue. Bx

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    1. 😘 thank you, dear Brenda! 😘

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  3. I look forward to reading your book as soon as it is available, Vicki. Bless you for having the courage to write it. 🥰

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    1. I promise every post won’t be about it over the next few weeks 😉…thank you so much, Maggie. I appreciate you for reading and for being so supportive. The feelings of vulnerability are still there…even though the writing’s done. Big hugs to you! 🥰

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  4. That’s a great cover photo for all the reasons you describe, and it sounds like an interesting read!

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    1. Thank you, Mark! I sure hope that will be the case. Big smiles to you! 😊😉😊

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  5. All the things those smiles and moments of pride don’t show, so much hidden away…It seems so hard to believe a small person, let alone an adult can hold so much inside. As you journey forward Vicki you know I believe this path was meant to be for you and for your mom.

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    1. Deb…that is the dearest thing you could say to me…that the path was meant for me…AND for my mom. Thank you so much. 💕💕💕

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  6. I can’t wait to read the book, Vicki, and I love all these little glimpses into the story behind the story. 😊

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    1. Thank you, Erin…I promise I won’t over do it! I have a couple of additional nuggets to share…and it means a lot to know that you like the ‘little glimpses’. That’s such a relief – honestly. xo! 🥰

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  7. I love the synopsis. And this sentence, “Pervasive hunger on a physical and emotional level.” Whoa! Great, great book – can’t wait til it’s on the shelves!!

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    1. You…you…you…one of my blessed ‘beta readers’ and cheerleaders. Thank you, Wynne! 🥰

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  8. I look forward to reading your story Vicki, and together, surviving Sue. I imagine your story is both heartwarming and revelational. These stories help us all overcome and grow. Hugs, C

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    1. Thank you, Cheryl. That’s my hope…because I know my story isn’t entirely unique. Connecting threads…that’s the best thing about being in a writing/blogging community with wonderful folks…just like you! 🥰

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  9. Sounds like a powerful write, Victoria.

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    1. 💓Yes…thank you, VJ. 💓

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  10. petespringerauthor Avatar
    petespringerauthor

    I’m definitely in. Part of what makes a successful story for me is the writing, but mostly, it’s about being able, as a reader, to envision what those scenarios must have been like. It’s a lot of responsibility for a child to provide for the family, but the power of the human spirit often determines the outcome.

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    1. I love the point you make, Pete, about the reader — being able to envision the story and scenarios within. Thank you for that and your observation about the power of the human spirit. Oh my – yes. Big smiles to you! 🥰

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  11. I’m certain the story you tell will be fascinating as you unwind that happy childhood image to reveal the complex layers of the person that became your mother. You’ve been through a lot. I hope you’ve found peace in letting the story out. I’ll look forward to reading it.

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    1. Alegria…you are so kind. Thank you. You’ve picked up the theme — complex layers – yes, yes but peace on the other side. Sending big hugs to you for your wholeheartedness and perceptive skills! xo! 🥰

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      1. You have a beautiful day Victoria! 🤗💕🌸

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        1. You too — you too! 🥰

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  12. Great cover and intriguing title. I look forward to seeing this book shoot to the top of the bestsellers list!

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    1. LOL — thank you for the comic relief, dear Ally! 😉
      Truly, tho — I love knowing that you like the cover and title. Xo! ❤️

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  13. You made a perfect choice with the cover photo. We are so fortunate to live in today’s world where we can get help and talk about things our parents kept hidden.

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    1. What a terrific observation, Elizabeth. You’re right! Being able to use our voices and share…hopefully for the greater good and for personal peace is a luxury other generations didn’t have. Silence was often the way…the only way. Thank you for that — and I love that you like the photo. 🥰

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  14. Aw, a great cover photo. Love the thought and care you’ve put into the artwork and book itself. Both pictures show her smiling, but it sounds like she learned young how to hide from life’s troubling challenges. I can’t wait to read your book. So excited for you!!! Such an exciting time! Congratulations

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    1. Thank you, Brian! Your enthusiasm over the past few months has been a gift! Grateful to you for your support. 🥰

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      1. There’s a little selfishness there. If I ever fulfill that dream, I’ll be posting everyday for months, yes months in advance, on my coming book. “Hey, have you heard the big news, I’m going to have a book coming out?” I guarantee you it’s going be sickening! 😜😜😜 I’ll love seeing my name in print, but it’s more than that, it’s seeing my words down on paper. I have so much respect for folks who sit down for months putting their thoughts down and keep at it. The task of putting a book out should be celebrated, it’s incredibly hard work. We should celebrate your accomplishment and others like it Vicki, it’s big stuff.

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        1. You’re so sweet…and funny! I know you’ve got a novel in you…ideas tucked away. I’ll cheer you on when the time is right for you. Thank you for your endless enthusiasm, Brian. You’re reminding me to be less terrified and more excited…I’m still not sure how, but I did it. 😘😊😘

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  15. In the dance between the writing and the promoting of a book, in my experience, the hardest part is the promotion. You, dear Vicki, already have an audience that is anxious to read, and I’m one of them! I’m with Ally—let’s all envision Sue making her way to the top of the best seller’s list. In the meantime, keep tempting us with snippets please, please!?

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    1. Oh my…you’ve gotten to the core of “Vicki”. The writing is big fun…but the self-promotion part feels daunting. Thank you for going along for the ride, Julia, and offering such warmth and kindness on the way. I think I’ve got three left feet 🤣for the promo dance…but I’ll keep at it. Grateful to you! 🥰🥰🥰

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  16. Yes, a major stumbling block for many an author, and the reason so many great books languish on dusty shelves waiting for a buyer. Lucky for you you’ve got a theater full of enthusiastic cheerleaders! Yay! 👏

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    1. I’m so grateful! Thank you, Julia! 🥰❤️🥰

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  17. Definitely looking forward to reading this book when it’s available, Vicki!

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    1. You are such a love! Thank you, Jane! 😉❤️😉

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  18. Can you remind me of the release date again?

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    1. You are so sweet! Pre-sales from the publisher’s website will go live next month and I’ll post the link. Thank you for your interest, Todd! 😎😉😎

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  19. Looks great! 😎😎😎😎

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  20. You made the right choice for the cover of your new book! And thanks for sharing a snippet of your heartfelt book with us!

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    1. Thank you so much! ❤️

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