Breathe the Air

The influence of the earth and the cadence of the seasons….on my mind today.  As much as I’ve maligned the morning darkness over these past few weeks, I’m taking comfort in the normalcy of a pulling in, coming inside, after a long summer of sunshine and nature’s delights. 

What is it about the approach of autumn that pushes me toward reflection?  Maybe I’m wrapped up in a memory, the fact that two years ago I took a big leap – out of higher education and into my own business?  

As I thought about all of this today, my head is consumed by a flurry of numbers (a very un-Vicki like thing LOL…). More than 700 days have zoomed by where I woke up feeling privileged and with a resolve to write without regrets, using whatever influence I have in life for the greater good (as lofty as that sounds).

Mixed into my resolve was the desire to tend to the “residue from Sue“.  I committed to writing about my mom beginning on Day 1 of my adventure, September 28, 2021.  As that took shape, my energy zoomed, and I started a novel as well.  I’m still working on that, wondering how I feel about it and whether I want to continue the story or let it rest a little longer.

Blogging has been a blessing.  Returning to WordPress – this time for personal blogging and not a higher ed, college-transitions-focused blog for students and parents – has been a joy.

I know enough to take a peek at WP stats, every now and again, for twin purposes.  Drilling into data is informative but it will also, invariably, tell another story – often one about opportunities missed and some which still beckon.  I like those that beckon.  They’re less finite and mistier with overtones of ‘what if’.  Because…

The people are amazing.  Followers, comments, likes – yes.  Those are wonderful metrics.  But the friendships and relationships built?  Unexpected.  Entirely.  If you’re reading this, I suspect you are one of those beautiful blogging gifts in human form.  Thank you. I’m sure I haven’t said that enough. 

Finding like-minded souls and friends who are talented and wise? Yep. Unexpected. I’m ever grateful for the friendship I’ve built with Wynne Leon and the work we’re doing with a talented team on Sharing the Heart of the Matter.  Blogging? Yes! Podcasting? Yes! Ambitions to take over the world…with positivity, purpose, lightness and humor?  Oh gosh, yes. 😉

Looking back across 700 days I see Thoreau’s point and I feel the urgency in his words, “breathe the air, drink the drink”.  Make haste…and cheers to all.

Vicki 🥰



50 responses to “Breathe the Air”

  1. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your posts although I know I missed some of those 700 days. Not to worry. I’ll catch up. But…but, sorry, you can’t take over the world. That’s on my to do list! 😆

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    1. Ah….no need to catch up! Ever onward, I say, especially if we share the aspiration of taking over the world with goodness. Teamwork, eh? Thanks, Michael! 🥰

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      1. My gosh – can you imagine a world run by us? It might be chaos but damn we’d have fun with it — and could write a pretty history of it too! 😁

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        1. I can…yes I can! And who said a little chaos wasn’t productive…eventually?? And thank you for pointing out the importance of fun. It’s there — and can swim beautifully with positivity and purpose. 🥰😎🥰

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  2. One of my favorite quotes of Henry’s. We live very Walden Pond and walk around his beautiful earthly place often. His presence is always nearby.
    You have joined us here in the blogging community so thoroughly. I love reading your posts. I must admit, I never look at my statistics! I guess I am most interested in sharing my stories, and connecting as you say with this wonderful community. 💜

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    1. Pam…I hadn’t put that together — your proximity to Walden Pond! Thanks for pointing it out. The fact that you can walk in that beautiful space…treading where he did. Oh my.
      Thank you for being such a welcoming, supportive influence about life, writing, how we use our time. Appreciate you! xo! 🥰

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  3. Cheers Vicki! I know we’ve only connected in recent months but I’m so grateful that we did. This wonderful community—and the feeling that I might be making a tiny difference in people’s lives—is what keeps me blogging. So many blessings to be thankful for. And I agree with your feeings about fall. It’s my favourite time of year!

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    1. Hugs to you, Michelle! It’s been such fun getting to know you, too. You embody the importance of every person doing what he/she can…thank you for that. And yes, yes – cheers to fall! Sweater weather! Yay! 🥰

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      1. Yes, there’s something about taking a walk in a warm sweater and feeling the leaves crunch under your feet that’s just so wonderful. I’m headed to Boston today though and from the forecast, it looks like I should have packed my rain boots. 5+ inches of rain over the next couple of days. That I can do without!

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        1. Oh my goodness! Travel safe. Knowing you…you will find the fun, no matter the forecast. 🥰

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  4. Blogging is such a blessing, isn’t it? And what a miracle that we all met here, of all the millions of blogs. So grateful to know you, Vicki!! 🥰🥰🥰

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    1. Oh goodness…right back at you, Erin. Right back at you! 💕

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  5. I love that image of embracing the curiosity of “what if” Vicki. There can be such knowledge and enjoyment gained when we allow plans to be muddied and simply see what comes into view around the next turn. I find a need to do that more often, to explore what might be, knowing that I can always return to the places and people I know so well for a bit of grounding and familiarity.

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    1. Love that. Me, too. I can be a little more daring with the ‘what ifs’ if I know I can return to my safe spots. I loved Cheryl’s post yesterday (I think) about the comforts of home. Familiar things, people. Yes, yes! 🥰

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  6. I’m pleased we found each other out here in blogland. It’s been fun getting to know you and see you prosper as an author. Blogging is a leap of faith, in yourself and in your ability to become part of a community. You done good, as they used to way where I’d of come from. 😉

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    1. Wowza…I love that compliment – thank you, Ally. “Done good”. Short, sweet…and it reminds me of a piece I’m writing for Sunday — mentioning my dad’s use of the word ‘gumption’. 😉 I’ve loved getting to know you, too – you were so welcoming and fun when I returned to blogging and it’s a treat to make a connection with someone who hails from a part of the Midwest that I adored as a kid. Hugs! 🥰

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  7. I love your post, reflecting on the change of seasons, the changes you’ve made in your life, too. You summed it up well — “Finding like-minded souls and friends who are talented and wise? Yep. “

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    1. Thank you so much for being one of those beautiful humans, Elizabeth. Unexpected gifts…oh-so welcome. Hugs to you! 🥰

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  8. I appreciate the connection as well, Vicki. But it seems you are more fortuitously located than I in our neighborhoods. The sky was noticably gray this summer.

    Much as I appreciate the lightness of your being, human wattage alone isn’t going to save us from the effects of Canadian wildfires and the planes, trains, and autos that have darkened the skies, made air quality a challenge, and more.

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    1. Ah…yes, yes. Thank you for that. An important point and sadly, an urgent reality.

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  9. Yes, yes, yes! Thank you for all of the gifts that you and Wynne bring to the blogging world, and to all those who sit at the same table enjoying tasty tidbits of positivity, lightheartedness, and pure joy.

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    1. Thank you for always being “at the table” Jules, leading the way! 🥰❤️🥰

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  10. I love, love, love this because it speaks to the unexpected fruits of the journey! And I’m smiling about this, “Ambitions to take over the world…with positivity, purpose, lightness and humor? Oh gosh, yes.” Yep, I’m so grateful to you for your partnership and all that has come with being in this space with a like-minded human willing to take leaps.

    I don’t think the stats can come close to telling the story of your impact. It’s huge — your genuine light and willingness to wrestle with the hard stuff until it becomes digestible is amazing. You are leading the way, dear Vicki! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. You are so sweet. I mean it…so sweet that I now worry my post might have the appearance of pandering for compliments. 😜 It’s not ME…it’s YOU…and so many other delightful humans. It’s about synergy and finding our peeps, I think. Big hugs to you! 🥰

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      1. No, not pandering for comments. It’s just that you’ve earned them!! And you’re right – synergy and finding our peeps. So grateful! ❤ ❤ ❤

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  11. I totally agree Vicki, blogging is such a privilege, and the writing community that came with the whole experience was a total surprise. The Fall does the same thing to me, I just want to snuggle in bed, watching the darkness turn to light, and think about the words I will write today. I love the warm sweaters, thick minestrone, and dark red wine! Favorite time of year and it goes so well with gratitude. What a pleasure to breathe cool air. Hugs, C

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    1. Mmm…minestrone. Sweaters and good wine. Yep. I’m “all in” with you, Cheryl, especially after reading your beautiful post about the wonders of being at home, at ease. xo! 🥰

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    It’s great to reflect on where you were and where we’re going. You’ve got a good thing going on.

    Blogging has always been about connecting with people and is an example of how we should treat one another in society. Most people on blogs are respectful as opposed to other forms of social media.

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    1. Thank you for that, Pete. You’ve been such a welcoming, encouraging friend here in blogging (and podcasting!) land. It’s been a pleasure to get to know you. Big smiles…oodles of thanks!🥰 🥰🥰

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  13. Cheers my friend! Enjoy the fruits of your labours and keep shining your light.

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  14. Breathe the air, drink the drink, and take over the world (with positivity and purpose, lightness and humor). You and Thoreau make a great team, Vicki!

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    1. Aww…it’s all the awesome like-minded friends like you! That’s the magic. Xo, Crystal! 🥰

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  15. I’m glad you started writing again- the blog world (at least mine) wouldn’t be as good without you!

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    1. Oh my. What a generous comment! If I go off the rails I might use your praise to defend myself! 🤣❤️🤣

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  16. “Breathe the air; drink the drink” is by far the best advice.

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    1. Xo…thank you, Kathy! ❤️

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  17. Oh, I love this – “Ambitions to take over the world…with positivity, purpose, lightness and humor? Oh gosh, yes.”

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    1. Thank you, Mary. I love that you’re along for the ride with us. So good! 🥰

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  18. You’re a wonderful, engaged blogger, Vicki. Pete Springer just wrote a beautiful post about you and Wynne, and I said to myself, “I know her!” Clearly you’ve made an impression. 🙂 I don’t check my stats, mostly because I don’t care about the numbers. Like you, I enjoy the friendships and they’re worth their weight in gold. ❤

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    1. Diana! Yes — isn’t it fun to see the connections? They matter most of all, don’t they? Thank you for the lovely comment. Some days…being engaged, person-to-person is everything. Pete’s post WAS beautiful. What a great human he is – just like you, I’d say – focusing on people, goodness. Big hugs! 🥰

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