In it…to Win it…With Gratitude

I hate to exercise. Hate, hate, hate it. 

Except…I always feel better after. Everything I know about endorphins and ‘happy chemicals’ from a therapeutic point of view – often helping athletes with sports performance issues – applies to me.  It always has, but to get the benefit, like most things that are worthwhile in life, a little effort is required. Sometimes a truckload of effort.

I loved my friend Brian’s post today on Heart of the Matter.  Brian captured my feelings precisely about pressing forward with a good attitude when we recall sunnier days when our bodies were more compliant. Those glory years seem to transition in a snap…morphing into the creaky years.  I don’t want to complain, but adjustments are…um…necessary.

I’m grateful, too, for my friend, Jane Fritz, who shared her fantastic accomplishment last week about exercising and adapting, as necessary, as our bodies change over time. I loved Jane’s comment about her doctor’s input: “Listen to your body”.  I like that. Listen and find ways to move, just the same.  Kinship with others who are in the same boat ramps up my motivation.

So, this morning…grumpy as all get out because I fancied more coffee/scrolling/reading time than sweating, I self-talked my way into my weightlifting routine and lumbered onto my spin bike.  Within a minute or two, my favorite tunes and upbeat playlist took over and I moved and grooved and sweated. So much sweat. 😉

When I finished – just a few minutes ago – I smiled when the monitor on my bike presented me with a milestone, an electronic high-five:

I’ll take it.  Grateful for the thoughtful reminders from Brian and Jane and the nudge that if I’ve done something 200 times, surely I can keep on, keeping on.

Cheers to you and the milestones that await if we:

Stay in it. To win it. With gratitude.

Vicki 😉



65 responses to “In it…to Win it…With Gratitude”

  1. You go, girl! Maybe you need to remember to turn on your playlist every morning!! There’s nothing more motivating. Mine’s full of 50s and 60s music, plus Billy Joel and ABBA! And thanks for the shoutout. 💕

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    1. If only we lived closer, dear Jane! I think our playlists would be super compatible! I like yours…and I’d just add a little Fleetwood Mac…some Eagles and there we’d go! Big hugs! 🥰

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      1. The Eagles, for sure, and also Cat Stevens! 😊

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        1. Oh….good one! How about a little James Taylor, too? 😎😁😎

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  2. Woo hoo! Exercise definitely does take effort. I’m sure there are some people who truly enjoy working out but, like you, I am not one of those people. The trick for me is making it a habit.

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    1. Amen to that. Habit, habit, habit. Trying to remember I wouldn’t skip brushing my teeth. Do it anyhow. Thanks, Michelle! 🥰

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  3. Whether I like pondering it or not, executing exercise always makes me feel better, Vicki. Sometimes it does feel like getting over the mental hurdle to do so is harder than the exercise itself, but once those endorphins kick in it is well worth that journey.😊

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    1. Ohhh…I love that phrase, Bruce. “The mental hurdle”…that’s it exactly. Thank you so much! 🥰

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  4. Thank you for this inspiration, I needed it

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    1. You’re welcome…but you know…I’m mostly doing the self-talk thing. 😜 Glad it was helpful for you, dear one!

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  5. I could learn a thing or two from. I know weightlifting would be beneficial for me, especially as I get old-er, but I just don’t do it.

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    1. I hear you. I resisted for a long time even though the hubster is a huge advocate. After adding a short routine – just arms at this point – I can’t believe how much my posture and core strength have improved. I was skeptical, but now that I can feel the difference, I’m hooked. Let me know if you give it a go – happy to learn from you! 🥰

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  6. I feel the same as you do about exercise, Vicki. But I love Qigong and some yoga postures (no pretzel logic for me! Ha!)
    I love mat Pilates and Yamuna stretching. I will lift weights and walk. But I am not consistent about most of those things, choosing to do them to fix little catches or snags in my back etc.

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    1. Hey Sheila – with all that you’ve had going on with the move, I bet you’ve had moments where you needed to get some relief for your back. I hope everything is going well for you. Thanks for the reminder that stretches are soo…soo good. I’m not familiar with Qigong or Yamuna. So much to learn. Big hugs to you! 🥰

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      1. Oh, yes, Vicki—and I have used a great massager. I bought us a small hand held Power Plate massager around last Christmas time and it sure helped me during the drive!
        Yamuna includes lessons on inflatable balls. Once learned, it is self massage and stretch for life for free! Ha! I love modalities like that. Qigong is easier than yoga and relies on slow movements—much easier for an old fart like me!

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        1. lol — glad you’re getting relief! Xo! 🥰

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  7. Congrats on your 200th bike ride! I am much like you. I need to get back in the pool and swim laps. I haven’t been in the pool in months because of cold wet weather. Now I have no excuse! But I do get out every day and walk for an hour. This morning I wanted to stay in bed, but like you, I forced myself to go and ended up loving it!

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    1. Yay! It’s that darn self-talk business. Once we get moving, it’s all good but geez, I make it hard with so many reasons NOT to move. Thanks for sharing you’re the same — I’m not alone! 😜🥰😜

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      1. It is self talk. I have to work on getting that part of me motivated and encouraged to work out!

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        1. Me, too! Daily duties! 🥰

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  8. I love it! And great shout outs to Jane and Brian. I adore this sentence, “self-talked my way” I need to do more of that self-talk. Thanks for passing on the motivation and inspiration!

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    1. Wellllll, you know. I am SO good at arguing with myself. Sometimes I listen, sometimes I ignore. Maybe you’ll do better? xo! 😜🥰😜

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  9. Wow! That is incredible Vicki! You rock. I love this, “I always feel better after.” I’m the same. Somedays I don’t want to slip into my bike pants in the dark and head out for a 30 mile ride but once I do I’m so happy I did. Nice shout-outs to Jane and Brian. I’m just glad I’m not the only curmudgeon in the morning. Hugs, C

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    1. You are too kind…on so many levels, Cheryl! I could never manage the tandem adventures that you and Larry experience! YOU rock — but thanks for sharing that you need to get tough with yourself, too. I love the company! 🥰

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  10. Congrats on the accomplishment, Vicki! Woot woot!! It such great reinforcement to have reminders of those little wins, especially when need to build up the momentum to ourselves moving. 😊

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    1. Oh! Oh! Another great word…momentum. Isn’t that the truth! Thanks, Erin! 🥰

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    Here’s to your athletic future, Vicki. Persistence, nutrition, and the wind at your back — may you have them all!

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    1. Aw! Thank you! 🥰

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  12. You captured my feelings about exercise best. I hate it but I love how it makes me feel afterwards and more importantly, the better health it enables. Good for you for winning this last workout!

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    1. Thank you, Ab! Cheers to better health — yes, yes! 🥰

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    I just read Brian’s post a little while ago. I have a love/hate relationship with exercise. I’m sticking with it, but the love portion seems to only last for about five minutes after I’m FINISHED! I have to admit it gives me a boost of satisfaction.

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    1. Thanks for that, Pete! I’m with you about the love/hate relationship…feeling like ya gotta do it…so we stick with it. But if you’re me, it comes with a little grumbling! 🥰

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  14. I second this and will add a couple of stories:

    #1: Recently, my hubby’s friend was told he needs to rest for 4-6 weeks because “he’s not young anymore.” His body needs time to recover from all of the things.

    #2: When I began researching my perimenopause journey, a wellness coach told me that women oftentimes do not realize they shouldn’t be going all hard at the gym anymore; in fact, it makes things worse.

    Finally, high five to you and your workout efforts 🙌🏽

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    1. Oh my…yes! Resting from “all the things”. Isn’t that the truth?! And I love that you got straightforward advice to be kind to your body…I think that’s where so many of us fall off the commitment wagon about exercise because we can’t push as hard as we once did. Thanks so much, Kath! 🥰

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  15. Go Vicki, go Vicki, you’ve got this. “So, this morning…grumpy as all get out because I fancied more coffee/scrolling/reading time than sweating, I self-talked my way into my weightlifting routine and lumbered onto my spin bike.” And I love that you hit a key milestone. Proof that self talk works. Love it. Ha, ha.

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    1. Oh geez. You’re right. I’ve got the proof now…I can’t deny it…but if you’re still in the game and trying, I’ll keep at it, too! 🥰

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  16. Congrats on that 200th ride! Wowza, that must have taken you around the world with that type of mileage!

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    1. LOL! In my imagination, for sure! Thanks, Mary! 😜🥰😜

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  17. Cheers to you for 200 bike rides! Sounds like your self-talk has been working — and that’s a good idea to listen to an upbeat playlist while you’re exercising 🌞

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    1. Thanks so much, Dave! Music definitely helps! 🥰🌞🥰

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  18. I’m with toy. I love being active but hate exercising. Maybe one day I’ll learn to enjoy it.

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    1. Ohhhh….you and your full life with your beautiful boys….I bet you get plenty of “exercise” every day! 🥰

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      1. I’m thankful my boys keep me active. I wouldn’t mind being a bit stronger. I’ll get there…one day! 🤪

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  19. Isn’t it an amazing feeling to hit those milestones. And there’s nothing like some good beats and the sense of accomplishment to get us through. Yeh you! You’re in it to win it for sure.

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    1. Good beats — yes, yes, yes! Thanks for that — it absolutely makes a difference! xo! 🥰

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  20. Is that 200 minutes? 200 days? 200 years??? I really need to know the level of this achievement before I dole out congratulations…

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    1. lol! 200 rides…mileage may vary! 🤪

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      1. Ahh, well in that case, GOOD JOB!

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  21. Reminds me of the saying I’ve heard most of my life: you gotta be in it to win it. That being said I’m not much for exercise, in the formal sense, but am all about moving myself, in a keep active way. I consider this “being in it” so I’m winning.

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    1. I like it, Ally — and your post about the garden center and the “scenic route” is a good reminder to move and enjoy ourselves at the same time.
      Xo! 🥰

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  22. WHOO HOO! Just keep moving! Great blog and I also scooted over to Brian’s blog and commented – thanks for the link – XOV

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    1. Ohhh….you’ll love Brian’s blog! Yay! 🥰

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  23. Totally understand where you’re coming from Vicki! I used to try to motivate myself to workout with sweet treats. That didn’t work. Then I tried little gifts like books and even a professional carpet cleaning if I stayed consistent for a whole month. Those gifts helped for a small time but never lead to good consistency. What I’ve found works now is finding exercises that I actually enjoy. Believe it or not, boxing has been my go-to. I love it and although there are still mornings that I don’t want to get my butt to boxing class, it’s easier for me to push through that and get my fill of exercise induced oxytocin.

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    1. Thanks so much, Cynthia! I have friends who love, love, love boxing! Maybe I’ll need to give that a whirl. 🥰❤️🥰

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  24. Amazing stuff Victoria. Well, all I can say is congratulations for your workouts and great positive message here “Go get it”

    You are a beacon of inspiration my friend. Keep going and to make your day a bit better, here is a JOKE that will blow your mind, well in the figurative sense not in real life😂😂😂💯

    “What are the reasons for sleeping at night?
    ” Simple, at night we get to close our eyes because it is so dark and the body needs to rest but sleeping during the day is a No No, your Boss can fire you for sleeping on the job and even worse coming to work wearing pyjamas with the slogan “SWEET DREAMS”😪😴😴, haha😂😂😂😂😂

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