Live Every Minute!


Sounds bossy, I know.

Live Every Minute!

But stick with me.

I’m mulling the enchantment of books…words and creations…illustrations that transport us; nudge us about what matters most.

Kindness. Consideration. Love.


I won’t pretend to understand how the Universe works, but I am delighted when coincidences appear. I’m delighted when I meet talented people and have the opportunity to connect them.


I had that experience recently – a coincidental (or not?) surge when I learned about Lauren Scott’s new book, “Cora’s Quest”. It made me think – instantly – about another children’s book that I love, written by Joanie Becker Goldberg. Both books tug at heartstrings and gorgeously so.

Lauren’s story about Cora? Sigh. So good. And the illustrations? Stunning…which reminded me of my dislike for genre definitions for books. Lauren’s tale about sweet Cora is a story you’ll embrace no matter your age. A courage booster…words and visuals…thanks to the loving collaboration between Lauren and her talented nephew and illustrator, Chris Mendez.

Which brings me to Joanie Becker Goldberg and her book, “Goldie A. Poligee & the Three Bears”. Joanie was inspired by her daughter to write “Goldie” – a brilliant ‘what if’ story based on the beloved Goldilocks tale. And Joanie? She created the beautiful artwork complementing Goldie’s story. Images that enchant, just like those found in “Cora’s Quest“.

I heartily recommend both books for gift giving, of course, but for your enjoyment, too.


Lagniappe? A little more?

I’m at a place in my life where I question whether or not the ‘grown ups’ know what they’re doing. As someone who owns her empath skills and embraces them from a vocational point of view (they’re great tools for a therapist and educator) I’m stunned and routinely overwhelmed by the brazen and callous behavior around me. Socially, culturally…politically.

Yes…a media diet helps, but I’m ever on the lookout for opportunities to replenish. Find the joy. See the good. Proactive restoration. “Cora’s Quest” and “Goldie A. Poligee”? I dare you to read and not smile as you embrace the warmth.

And those layered coincidental combos? Joanie put a huge smile on my face when she shared recently that she, too, played Emily in Thornton Wilder’s “Our Town”. Another thread. Our shared loved of a classic play written in 1938.

I reminisced, thanks to Joanie. Remembering this excerpt in “Surviving Sue” about finding my people in the theatre community. Lying so I could play Emily in a high school production of “Our Town”:

Even as a lowly fifth and sixth grader, I loved singing, movies, and theatre. I participated in every production and play that I could – even if I needed to be extra creative. I was both Maria and the Baroness in the Sound of Music (yes, that was a little tricky). I was also Snow White (mainly because I had dark hair and was too tall to be a dwarf) and then I hopped into the high school production of Our Town to play Emily. It helped that I was tall – I could audition and forge Sue’s signature and no one challenged me much. I do think the director/art teacher/music teacher for Our Town knew I was a fraud, but he was also the first openly gay person I’d ever met, and we connected on a bad-ass level, for sure. Let’s challenge the status quo together, shall we?

“Surviving Sue”, p. 36

Do you recall Emily’s soliloquy in “Our Town”? I cannot read it without tears. I remember being on stage, barely squeaking out the words. Even now I feel a catch in my throat as I read:

I can’t.
I can’t go on. It goes so fast.
We don’t have time to look at one another.
I didn’t realize. All that was going on in life,
and we never noticed.
Take me back – up the hill – to my grave.
But first: Wait! One more look.
Good-by, Good-by, world.
Good-by, Grover’s Corners.
Mama and Papa.
Good-bye to clocks ticking.
And Mama’s sunflowers.
And food and coffee.
And new-ironed dresses and hot baths.
And sleeping and waking up.
Oh, earth, you’re too wonderful
for anybody to realize you.
Do any human beings ever realize life
while they live it? – every, every minute?

My point? Find the literature…and the people who move you. Find the books, the plays, the films, the art, the music. Eat it up. All that draws you in. Live every minute.

Vicki 😊


Joanie Becker Goldberg’s Goldie A. Poligee https://www.goldieapoligee.com/

Lauren Scott’s Cora’s Quest is available on Amazon (paperback and e-book)


Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue | Eckhartz Press.

Check out this link to learn more about my book “Surviving Sue” – all about resilience and love.

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61 responses to “Live Every Minute!”

  1. Find the joy, oh, yes! Thanks for this, Vicki, such an important message in our troubled world. There is joy among Syrians that a brutal dictatorship has been swiftly and surprisingly brought to its knees after 53 years. We can celebrate this positive step with them, despite the unknowns, while we seek simple joys in our own lives. Thx for the book recommendations. 🥰🎄

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    1. Yes! Love that, Jane. Find the joy, celebrate the wins for humanity wherever we find them. You…are a joy! 🥰❤️🥰

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  2. Hmm, not sure everyone would agree with that, but I’ll hang onto it! 🤣💕

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    1. LOL! I’ll sing your praises anytime! 🥰

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  3. What a surprise to wake up to your beautiful post that includes Cora’s Quest, Vicki! Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed Cora’s sweet tale and loved Chris’ images. I feel the same, even though it’s a children’s book, it offers a message for all ages. And I understand how you feel about the behavior around you. It’s the same in my neck of the woods. Joanie’s book sounds wonderful too. I look forward to reading it! After learning about your childhood, I found that we had singing and musicals in common. And I can’t wait to read your book too. I have a feeling it’ll be an emotional ride. Your ending ties it all together and is so powerful: “Eat it all up and Live Every Minute!” Just what we need to be reminded of! Thank you again for highlighting my book! I’m honored to be a part of this beautiful post. Hugs ❤️🤗

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    1. Oh my goodness. My pleasure in every way. I was SO excited to receive my copy of “Cora’s Quest” yesterday. I love it and immediately recognized how universal the message is. Filled me up! Thank you for sharing Cora with all of us! (And I love the connections we’re finding about our mutual love of musicals…theatre! Yay!) Big hugs to you…continued success in all things…especially with sweet Cora. 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. I can’t stop saying, “Thank you” for everything! 😊 My heart is full, Vicki, and I love our connections too! Big hugs back to you, and I’ll share your wonderful words about Cora to Chris too! 💖💞🌷

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        1. Oh, please do! I meant to add that in my last reply. I loved learning about Chris…the bio info at the end of “Cora” is terrific…about both of you…a treat to learn more about him. Give Chris my best! 🥰

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  4. The books wait patiently, don’t they Vicki? It is our turning from time’s passage that is the problem. Facing time enhances life and all its riches. Be brave, I’d advise. I know you are.

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    1. What a beautiful phrase, Dr. Stein. “Facing time enhances life…” Thank you! ❤️

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  5. Both books sound utterly wonderful and I find great joy in all kinds of books, and collect children’s literature. it’s like poetry, tells a story in so few words, but packs a punch. p.s. If you love ‘our town’ and theater, I think you’d love ann patchett’s book, ‘tom lake.’ it revolves around that play on a couple of different levels.

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    1. Oh, Beth! Thank you for the reminder about “Tom Lake”. It’s been recommended to me but I’d forgotten about it. 🥰
      Your point about children’s literature packing a punch with well-chosen words. Yes! Like poetry…and Lauren and Joanie do just that. So very well.
      Xo! 🥰

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  6. Your reviews are fascinating and encourage me to read the books. Beautiful

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  7. Your reviews are fascinating and encourage me to read the books. Beautiful

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    1. Oh! That’s so lovely of you to say, Mary. Thank you! 🥰

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  8. It took you this long to figure out grown-ups don’t know what they’re doing? Oh you sweet, naive being. But then you bounce back with the astute “Find the literature… and the people who move you.” We all have that something that draws us in and turns a day into an adventure. Too often we forget to look to it when we need it most, which for me is just about every morning! So. I accept your bossy challenge and will (try to) live every minute!

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    1. I love it. You SEE my bossy challenge and RAISE it. Upping the stakes…promising to give it a go…live (and enjoy, I should say) all the minutes. Thanks for the smile, Michael. And yup. I’m a perpetually naive one…it takes me a minute and more…to realize many of the grown ups…aren’t. xo to you! 🥰

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      1. Oh IU love how you put that. Yes indeed, many of the grown ups aren’t!

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  9. The universe to kid’s books to one of my favorites scenes in Our Town — one that always makes me gulp — to your powerful statement on making the most of life …. Wow! It puts things in perspective. 🙏🏼🙏🏼😎😎😎

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    1. Oh…you’re so sweet. Thanks for following my train of thought! I never know if I’m derailing or not. Xo, Brian! 🥰

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      1. A great message! Needed it today. Thanks Vicki!

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        1. Thank you so much, Brian! 🥰

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  10. “Proactive restoration.” Wow! I think this post definitely counts as filling up my cup! Beautiful, Vicki!

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    1. Thank you, Wynne! 🥰

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  11. So encouraging! Thank you, Vicki!

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    1. Adore you, Joy! Thank you. 🥰💕🥰

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    1. LOL…and I like you, Bridget! Thanks for the smile! 🥰💕🥰

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  12. Victoria, thanks for continuing to inspire us and yes, I’m in your club on this – “Find the literature…and the people who move you. Find the books, the plays, the films, the art, the music. Eat it up. All that draws you in. Live every minute.” YES!!!!!!!💕

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    1. Ah…yes! And let’s not forget the photography…your hubby’s handiwork that’s absolutely art! Thank you, Mary! 🥰

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  13. I mean, I’m not even sure I can call myself a grownup yet, so how would I know what I’m doing? It’s a lifelong journey, this becoming…

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    1. Good golly. Isn’t that the truth! Thanks for that, David! 😉

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  14. Wonderful how you wrap together the two children’s books with “Our Town” and your concluding message at the end. And that message? Oh, wow. Yes, yes, and hmmmmm… Yes! 🌞

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    1. Thank you, Dave! I think it’s something you embody — embrace the magic. Creativity and gratitude. 🥰

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  15. I love your advice. I also love that you’re sharing two authors you know and their joy and goodness. You’re echoing Ray Bradbury advice, “Garbage in, garbage out. Turn off the news. Read a poem and an essay every day.” He said that would help promote creativity and get us in a more hopeful place.

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    1. That’s so lovely! Thank you for sharing, Elizabeth! Ray Bradbury was a treasure. 🥰

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  16. So much to love here Vicki. We need to celebrate art in all its forms because, unlike many things in life, art has the power to move people and bring them together. 🤗

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    1. Thank you, dear one! Your insight means so much. Cheers to coming together! 🥰

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    Vicki … oh my! I was startled in the best possible way when I opened FB to find the cover of my book featured with “Cora’s Quest” in your most-generous post. I’m touched, truly, by your kind words about “Goldie.” And happy that my mention of our “Emily” connection inspired memories of your “Our Town” experience that prompted you to share this message with us here.
    You certainly do have a knack for connecting things! Lauren and I are already in touch. “Cora’s Quest” exudes sweetness and I can’t wait to read the book. That Chris’s artwork put you in mind of mine is so flattering. Thank you. In fact, thank you for all your tie-ins. “Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it? — every, every minute?” Alas, no. Yet you invite us to try: “Live Every Minute!” Indeed!

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    1. My pleasure, dear Joanie! I love the connections and I’m happy to spread the goodness of Goldie. I love your book! 🥰

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        Thank you so much! You’re a love!

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  18. I’m all about living every minute and devoting time to things that move you…especially in these horrendous times.

    Also, I don’t believe in coincidences. There have just been far too many in my life for me to think they’re all accidental. The WP snow is just the latest example.

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    1. Isn’t it though…the snow? Such a great example of Mark manifesting! And I’m with you…people find each other and it’s pretty darn magical, the interwoven threads we discover. Thanks, Mark. (And I’m working on my list — things you can manifest for the greater good – yes – bigger than WP snow!) 🥰

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  19. I recently pulled out a few favorite books from over the years to re-read–hopefully they give me the same boost now that they did then!

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    1. Love that! Thank you, Belinda! 🥰❤️🥰

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  20. Such great reviews, Vicki! Mine are wrapped and I didn’t get a sneak read but will share again as I know I’ll be reading Cora’s Quest over and over!!! haha.. the babes love their books.. 📚💓

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    1. You know…if I haven’t said this enough to you, Cindy, thank you for your support, your kindness and your exuberance about helping others. It comes through! Thank you so much for your always fun, “lift and love” comments. xo! 🥰🥰🥰

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  21. So much joy and beautiful and hope in literature, Vicki! Especially in the wonder and innocence of children’s books. Some of the illustrations found them are truly mesmerizing! Thanks for these two suggestions. Always love gifting kids books to others, especially new and newish parents.

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    1. Ohhh! Thank you so much, Ab! I love that you love the illustrations. Me, too! They captivate. xo! 🥰

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  22. Excellent advice. A friend of mine (a doctor) goes to bed at night reading a children’s book. She finds them comforting and joyful. Just what we need. So happy for Lauren and for Joanie. Bringing joy into the lives of all of their readers. Yes, each moment. Counts. xo

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    1. Thank you, Pam! I love hearing about your friend’s love of children’s books. Joyful, yes! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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  23. Emily’s soliloquy. Goodness. I hadn’t heard that for many years. Last time I heard it I was in high school. It’s amazing how great writers can narrow it all down- this thing called life- to the very bone. Thank you, Vicki!

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    1. Gosh, yes! I think that’s what I love most about Wilder’s words. Sparse but straight to the heart. Thank you, Lori! 🥰

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  24. “I’m stunned and routinely overwhelmed by the brazen and callous behavior around me. Socially, culturally…politically.”- I totally agree! 😱

    I had forgotten about your acting and singing career- very cool! 😎😎

    Wow- those illustrations are excellent! And thanks for the reminder to dive into whatever calls us.

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    1. Thanks so much, Todd! I have other commentary about the “social, cultural, political” stuff, but it’s not very appropriate for WP! I know you understand. Thanks for all of your kind words and support! Happy Holidays to you and your family! 🥰

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  25. I believe I do understand😅 Happy holidays!

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    1. 💕🥰💕🌲🌲🌲

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