Legal Pad Love

I love writing prompts. I hate writing prompts.

But I recognize their utility. I see them as neat and tidy nudges, reminding us to put in the time – to work on our craft. Same for, musicians, carpenters and artists…creatives of all types. The more you do, the more fluid your unique process and the resulting creation. Stretching and flexing the sinewy tissue from which your uniqueness emanates. Inviting the unfolding…the reveal. You.

This mulling reminds me of wonderful exercises that my beloved speech and improv teachers laid on me years ago. Handing me an object with the direction: “Ready, set, go – talk about it for five minutes.”

And the “it” in question? Once it was a sticky can of Coke pulled from the garbage can. Once it was a book; one I’d never read but needed to endorse with a compelling testimonial. Once I had to discuss the merits of a broken pencil sharpener, touting its other uses?

I remember those terror-filled teachable moments – standing all alone with far too many eyes on me, occasionally getting a tap in of support from a fellow victim/student. I was terrified…but the memories of learning and persevering, trusting my powers of observation? They’ve never left my head and heart. Trauma will do that. (Joking – only joking.)

Which brings me to the point of today’s ramble. I love the “Write City” blog from the Chicago Writers Association. The latest edition, “Seven New Year’s Resolutions That Will Actually Get You Writing and Reading More” was a home run. Perfectly timed to rev my writing engine in January when it can be hard to turn the motor. I blame the cold weather. Low battery?

I love each of the seven tips but #6 reminded me of why I write:

“Write one hundred words each day about something specific in your environment. This could be snippets of a conversation or a detailed description of someone or something nearby. The only rule is to stay focused so that you can capture as much as you can. Avoid including unrelated details and general descriptions.”

We’ve all heard the ‘write every day’ wisdom – sometimes with a word count goal – one hundred words, five hundred words. But when I read tip #6, I remembered the exercise from my speech and theatre classes and stopped in my tracks. Right here at my desk. “Write…about something specific in your environment…”

Looking around, my messy mound of legal pads spoke to me.

I imagined they said:

“Lookie here, Miss Vicki…we’re ready to take the spotlight. Tell a story about us…about how we’re your most constant companion…have been for years. And don’t forget. Tell the part about how you like to torment us when we’ve dutifully served you. Tell the truth…about the violent dismissals.”

I mean…who am I to ignore a sassy stack of notepads? And in taking on the challenge, I believe I pushed out 400 or so words (what follows below). A bunch more than tip #6 suggests, but then again, I ignored this guideline entirely:

“Avoid including unrelated details and general descriptions.”

Gah. Full failure there. But maybe you’ll read anyhow? Thank you for your patience. And good humor.


Legal Pad Love

I am an inveterate list maker because I’m a believer in task-completion. I learned long ago that being productive and monitoring my own follow-through was a route to sustaining and maintaining self-confidence. Reminding myself of my agency and purpose. Staying on track when life was anything but.

I also believe my love of lists is rooted in the auditory payoff that comes when every little thing on a particular list’s been accomplished. I adore the satisfying endorphin rush that rises when I gaze at a well-filled page on one of my trusty legal pads – with task after task jettisoned with a mere flip of my pen. What follows? The beloved rumple and the crumple as I rip the page free, wad it up and toss it in the bin. Sometimes with a swish.

I’ve tried the fancy journals. Would you like one? Or three? Friends who know about my love of note-taking have been generous over the years but I can’t bear to mar the interior of lovely volumes with the often nonsensical and irreverent this and that that flows from me head to fingertips. I just can’t do it. But I admire the floral and embossed goodness as they sit across from my desk, creating an enchanting tableau. A pristine aesthetic that’s calming. Unlike anything else in my messy workspace.

I also have a few leather holders for my legal pads. Little houses. Places to tuck them in… remnants from my dad’s days as an executive when he’d pause before going into a meeting, shoving his active legal pad into a pretty holster. Just for show. Often leaving his binder clip of notes and other associated paraphernalia attached, causing the glossy glove leather to pooch out at the side. Dad had a fix for that; he’d hold his hand over the binder clip to disguise the pooch and help the clip do its job.

My favorite leather “portfolio” matches a beloved briefcase gifted to me by my dear friend Linda. Both are in a rich honey brown hue; well-used in the 80’s and 90’s. Luscious to look at and delightful to hold but I can’t remember the last time I used either. The days of fancy seem to have passed, gone the way of suits and ties and skirts and pumps.

I’m not mad about it; I remember the version of Vicki who carried those accoutrements. But Vicki-now? I’m a fan of all things comfy. Just me and my stalwart legal pads. My all-time favorite desktop friends.

Vicki 😊


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78 responses to “Legal Pad Love”

    1. Thank you, Caleb! 😉

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  1. Speech and improv teachers, wow! Better you than me!! 🤣 I’m also an inveterate list-maker, and I do so in un-fancy, grocery-store acquired notebooks. I especially like including already attended-to thoughts or actions in my lists so I can tick them off immediately! So satisfying!! 🤗

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    1. I love that you’re a list maker, too! Satisfying—yes!! And cheers to the un-fancy.
      Xo, Jane! 🥰

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  2. Oh I hear you, I hated and loved having to write in class. Oh the pressure! But I do love the habit of cranking out 100 words on a topic. I find it interesting to see where it might take me. I have to laugh too. So, I’m not the only one who loves a new journal, but hates to actually mess them up with my scribbling and horrible handwriting!!!! You too Vicki? Ha ha🤣🤣🤣🤣

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    1. Yes! Me, too! But a legal pad? I’ve got plenty and I don’t mind ripping out THOSE pages!
      🤣🥰🤣

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    2. Gosh, me too! Writing in my beautiful clean journal with every word getting messier… Ugh!

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  3. Another task in creativity, if you have a small child, is to tell them a new bedtime story on the same subject every night. For example, each night a different version of the Three Little Pigs. And best of all it is also a gift of love.

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    1. I love that! A gift of creativity with togetherness and love. Thank you, Dr. Stein! 🥰

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  4. Vicki – once again we seem to be separated sisters! I have been wringing on legal pads, paper scraps, napkins, notepaper, and on and on for may years. something about putting pen to paper, helps me to move it from my brain to the page. I also make list after list and love to cross things out and throw a list away when it’s done.

    p.s.  Stephen King, Ray Bradbury, J. K. Rowling, Neil Gaiman, Joyce Carol Oates, Peter Straub, Danielle Steel, all write/wrote on paper, and on and on…….

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    1. Hey, soul sister! 🥰Yes! Making the lists is gratifying — throwing them away even more so! 😜 I love any common ground with you — and what a list of smart, creative ones who use paper! Thanks for that, too. Hugs, hugs! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. and even Santa makes lists and checks them twice!

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        1. LOL! You are on a roll, girl! Glad to be in your good company! And Santa’s! 🥰😜🥰

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  5. Ha ha! I remember my first briefcase. I was so proud of it. It was eventually replaced by a laptop bag and then ultimately a backpack.

    You have legal pads. I have notebooks. Looking at the spot beside my chair here in the living room, I see at least three. Each has a purpose. Like you, I shun the fancy expensive journals. When I asked my husband and daughter to buy me an old fashioned day planner for Christmas so I could track my daily to dos, I was shocked when they spent $30 on one. I told them the dollar store sells them for $4. I returned the $30 one to Staples, went nextdoor and spent $4. I was a happy girl!

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    1. Oh, Michelle! Love you AND your notebooks! Returning those pricey things and heading for the dollar store. With you all the way. Xo! 🥰

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      1. My journal is a notebook I bought at our local surplus store. A package of 5 was $2. I bought 10 of them. 😂🤗😂

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        1. Love that! And we need/want a supply — having plenty “on hand” makes me happy! You, too I’d bet! 🥰

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    1. Can you hear me chuckling? 🥰🤣🥰

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  6. Victoria don’t go there with notebooks or notepads LOL!
    I use reportes pads £1 for scribbles and ideas mostly.
    Thank you for your post.
    Have a lovely day ❤️🥰🤗

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    1. Hello, Maggie! Oh yes! The “scribbles and ideas”. You must capture them! 🥰

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      1. I keep a pad beside my bed 🥰

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        1. Isn’t that the best! Capturing all the bits — that you weave into beautiful verse. Xo, Maggie! 🥰

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          1. It is Victoria xo
            Have a lovely day xo😘

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            1. You, too dear Maggie! 🥰

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  7. I love “Legal Pad Love!” I keep finding out little bits about you and become increasingly certain that chances are good we are actually the same person. All that aside though, my favorite passage in this post in the imaginings of what they said to you. I can just hear them saying C’mon, get us in that spotlight. We’re ready for our close-up!

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    1. If not the same person, surely we are related – somehow! And look at you, my favorite movie buff. “Ready for our close-up” — LOL! Thank you for the giggle. 🥰🤣🥰

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      1. You know if they were my legal pads they’d be looking wherever the camera is! 🎦

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        1. LOL! Right! 😜🥰😜

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  8. I love that prompt..it gives you something more precise to do. Legal pads are functionally perfect :)..

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    1. Oh! What a great phrase — “functionally perfect”! Thanks for that! 🥰

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  9. Hurrah for legal pads! And Post-Its!

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    1. Oof! Yes! Where would we be without our beloved post-its??!! 🥰😉🥰

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  10. I hate writing prompts. Even my own! I write them on lists and misplace said lists and end up writing something completely unrelated. 😵‍💫😀

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    1. You’re making me chuckle, Claudette! Thanks for sharing that I’m not alone! 😜🥰😜

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  11. I love your encouragement for “Stretching and flexing the sinewy tissue from which your uniqueness emanates.” So, so, good.

    And then you give us such a great example of your brilliance and uniqueness. I love it! You can check “Deliver inspiration” off your list! 🙂 ❤

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    1. Yah…when the words “sinewy tissue” came to mind, I decided I’ve gotta go with it…and then scratch my head and ask, “who are you?” LOL! xo! 🥰😜🥰

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  12. I guess we all have a love/hate relationship with writing prompts.

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    1. I think you’re right, Bridget! 🥰

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  13. Improv and writing prompts do teach us so much about how to get creative juices flowing and to build our writing routines and processes. I do love that we can get prompts from everywhere, including WordPress and yes our environment!

    Love the love for legal pads. I love that endorphin rush of striking items off a list. I do use the notepad app on my phone. Find it helpful on the go!

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    1. Ohhh! I love the notepad app, too! All notes are good notes – especially for those of us can’t help ourselves. 🥰😜🥰

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  14. Wonderful, Vicki. I tried legal pads once but switched to Moleskine and Leuchtturm notebooks. Now, I buy Pen+Gear from Walmart, same quality but much cheaper. I also carry my Traveler’s notebook around because I like paper planners. I love taking notes, so I have a lot of notebooks around the home office.

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    1. I love your latest post – showing off your note-taking and annotating skills! And how great that you found options that are affordable! Yay! 🥰

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      1. Thank you, Vicki. I’ve got to stretch that retirement check and save to buy books. 😉

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        1. Priorities! 🥰😉🥰

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  15. Oh those stalwart legal pads! 🙄 But Vicki I can totally connect to your plight. I still use and find tucked away in my closet, reminders of my legal pad mania! Girl, while the apps are nice, I still can’t help myself to grab my pen and a nearby legal pad, regardless of it’s size, and let my thoughts flow. Talk about letting my juices recharge eh? 😜💖😍 Thanks for these simple reminders that speak volumes! Smooches! 😘💋🤭

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    1. Legal pad mania! I love that! And yes…paper and pen to let the ideas flow. Thank you, dear Kym! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. And thank YOU Dr. V! You’ve made me look at my legal pads in a whole new way my friend. 😜📚😍 Smooches! 😘💋😘

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        1. Mwah! 🥰❤️🥰

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  16. Sassy notepads! You had me chuckling over that, and more in this delightful post. And it’s a wonderful suggestion to stretch our creativity. Handling unexpected things, be they legal pads or a sticky can of Coke. Talk about anxiety causing about that improv exercise! But I admire the spontaneity and surprise of it. The jostling of brain cells that are accustomed to routine. Stretching, exploring. Thanks for this wonderful advice 🌞

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    1. Thanks for reading, Dave, and giggling along with me! Creative stretches — yes! Thanks for providing plenty of encouragement and inspo to do just that! 🥰

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  17. I am a list maker, too. But sometimes I say, “Our Stop Doing List needs to be bigger than our To-Do List!” I have that posted near my desk.
    Happy New Year, Beautiful Friend!

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    1. Hey, Nancy! I need one of those. Stop Doing…oh my goodness. Happy New Year back to you, my friend. Xo! 🥰

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  18. Not sure who tossed a can of Coke in the garbage can, but I’m calling the recycling police!

    I’ve never been one for fancy journals either. I bought a 2024 planner, filled in two items, and promptly forgot all about it.

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    1. LOL! Right? And don’tcha know that was part of my rant. Why….was it in the garbage??
      And…cheers to the un-fancy notebooks and such! 🥰

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  19. I used to carry this little notebook for lists and ideas. But now I’m stuck on the Notes and Voice Memo apps in my phone.

    That exercise where you talk about an object off the cuff seems fun! My wife would tell you that’s what I do 24/7 anyway 🙄😁

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    1. Haha! Todd 24/7 — Off the cuff is a good way to be, I say! 🥰🤣🥰

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  20. “Write one hundred words each day about something specific in your environment. This could be snippets of a conversation or a detailed description of someone or something nearby. The only rule is to stay focused so that you can capture as much as you can. Avoid including unrelated details and general descriptions.” I needed to hear this thank you thank you

    and I am 100% with you on the list thing. Even to the point of adding an item only so I can cross it off!

    love V

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    1. I’m so glad you connect with this advice, Vickie! Your recent mention of a course you’d taken about writing about trauma made me think of this – advice I received once about breaking down difficult, emotionally laden topics into smaller chunks. And tee hee — I’m that kind of ‘list maker’, too! Write it down just to cross it off. Yep! Been there! Big hugs! 💕

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      1. I’m going to start with the 100 word activity and stop thinking about writing the next big essay but rather write what comes to mind. ❤️

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  21. As a collector of paper tablets over the years this post made me smile! Lately, I’ve been ‘right-sizing’ my tablets, notebooks, and journals trying to use them up! And yes, I too love lists!

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    1. “Right sizing” — love it! 🥰 Thank you, Mary!

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  22. Ah, the writer’s learning curve–it never ends. “Avoid including unrelated details and general descriptions.” I’ve wrestled with this one too, Vicki. My self-appointed mission on the last two polishes of my novel, was to route out details that are tangential to the narrative drive.

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    1. Thank you for that, Mitch! I love the “self-appointed mission”. Cheers to all of your successes…and those to come! 🥰

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  23. From #1: Protect your writing time (especially from yourself).

    Ooof. That one really convicted me. :/

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    1. Hey — I hear you. Life is an extra wacky juggling act when you add writing into the mix and you’ve got a big project in motion! Sending love and good energy! 🥰

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      1. Back atcha, Vicki! 🙂

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