I write often about my dad and one post in particular from over two years ago is still a conversation starter with readers – White Shirt, Helping Heart – Victoria Ponders.
I think the resonance of that piece comes from the fact that my dad looked like a contradiction; an imposing looking privileged man – with a kind heart nestled within.
Long before it was a topic fraught with political overtones, my dad understood his unearned assets based on his family of origin, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender and skin color.
Poverty was a thread that ran throughout his family, but he was one of the few who “made good” and he never forgot the challenges of his troubled past and the importance of leaning into those in need.
I don’t know exactly what my dad would say to me today about the turmoil unfolding in the U.S., but I’d wager his words would include an admonishment of some sort to get busy, don’t look away.
In my post today for Heart of the Matter I share an encounter from last week. Pop over and read, won’t you? It’s about being present with someone in need. Or…as my dad would say…keeping eyes on those who need help; don’t look away.
-Vicki ❤
Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue | Eckhartz Press.
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