A “Surviving Sue” Birthday Gift!

“Surviving Sue” is celebrating a birthday – she’s officially two years old!

Last week in a reflective moment I thought about the past two years and the enormous gratitude I feel for readers and their kind words, lovely reviews and comments. Whether it’s a call or an email outreach, my heart swells when readers connect. It’s a wealth of riches…hearing that my story inspires and helps others on a healing journey.

I don’t know much about manifesting goodness, but I’m intrigued by the concept.

I received two phone calls last week from former students who read “Surviving Sue” – eager to share a-ha’s about their accomplishments, despite enduring family turmoil…much like life with my mom, Sue. The following day, I heard from a dear former colleague, the talented educator, librarian and author, Jim Edstrom (that’s Jim in the pic above) offering praise for “Surviving Sue“:

Your book is an extraordinarily important work that deserves wide circulation. You accomplished something exceedingly rare:  at the same time that you told your story honestly and truthfully, you were able to critically assess what was happening, evaluate your mother’s behavior patterns and find for yourself a sense of peace and healing.  That is an incredible gift.  And you drew such vivid portraits of all the actors–your dad, your sister, your aunts, and most of all your mother–I felt like I truly got to know them as much as any reader can know the characters in a well-written narrative. 

None of us can ever completely escape from our own personal traumas.  But you showed that it’s more than possible to transcend one’s past, integrate it into one’s experience, and to build a better world of one’s own. I’m convinced that it has the power to transform people’s lives and remind them that no matter what traumas they may encounter, no one is ever alone.  There is always someone to turn to.  Your story and your triumphant journey of resilience underscore that Vicki Atkinson will be that someone for countless readers of your work.

Wow…and wow…and thanks to all of you who’ve read and provided heartfelt endorsements. They matter and serve as booster shots of encouragement as I work on my next book…weaving threads from “Surviving Sue” into a story with ancestral flair.

Hugs to my beta readers for their endless support as I work through the final draft…and thank you, my WordPress friends, for all of your kindnesses.

-Vicki 💝


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101 responses to “A “Surviving Sue” Birthday Gift!”

  1. What a lovely and inspiring endorsement of your work, Vicki. Isn’t it interesting how some people can overcome difficult circumstances and thrive, as you have, whereas others seem to get mired in the past? Something to ponder on a rainy Sunday morning…

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    1. I hear you, Michelle. Such a good question. Thank you for all of your support. It’s made a difference for me! 💕

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        1. Right back to you, my friend. Here’s hoping you have a “sludge” free week (just read your latest post…oh my goodness.) xo! 🥰

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  2. What a wonderful review. You indeed have transcended the past and share your transparency with us readers. We are blessed by you, Vicki!

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    1. Love you, Joy, and how you lead the way. Being vulnerable and transparent, sharing family stories and so much history, poignancy. Appreciate YOU! 💕🥰💕

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  3. It is wonderful how you continue to get positive reviews and heartfelt comments about your book. You took a risk writing it and have helped many people in the process. As well as yourself. Yay!

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    1. Feeling all of that, Ally! Yes…risk/reward…and the continuing positive feedback is truly humbling. Thank you so much. 💕

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  4. Well deserved congratulations on continuing outpourings of heartwarming reviews, Vicki. I think Ally speaks to an important aspect of your decision to write Surviving Sue, the risk you were taking – to yourself – in opening up all that hurt. The reward came to both you and all your readers. 💕

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    1. Thank you, dear Jane, for all of that. You know me – the gratification that still comes from readers means so much. A reminder that opening up was the right thing for me. Sending love! 🥰

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  5. Jim’s praise is so perfect – your book showed it’s possible to transcend the past and that no one is ever alone! 💞💞

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    1. Rose! Your comment put a huge smile on my face. Thank you so much for being YOU and for allllll of the kindness and support. Big hugs! 🥰

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  6. Happy two year anniversary, Vicki! And congrats on your latest accolades. There will be more to come! 🙏💕

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    1. You are the best! Thank you for your positivity and enthusiasm, Ab! Sending big hugs and smiles to you! 🥰❤️🥰

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  7. Congratulations, Vicki, on the wonderful words of praise for your book!

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    1. Thank you, Dave! Your encouragement means a lot…grateful to you! 🥰

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  8. Vicki firstĺy many congratulations on these wonderful endorsements of your book.
    So deserved!
    Secindly, please accept my sincere apologies for still not having finished reading “Surviving Sue ” and thirdly, WP had “unsubscribed” from your blog (I only just noticed).
    Your friendship is important to me .
    If you have time dear friend could you pop me an email.
    Because I feel totally rubbish about not finishing your book yet.
    Thank you for your patience and understanding ❤️🥰❤️

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    1. Maggie, Maggie! Can you see me smiling? No worries at all. I’m with you about the peculiarities with WP — the same thing happened to me with two dear blogging friends, and I have no idea why. For a week or so I figured they were taking a break until I checked and realized I wasn’t getting notifications. All good. And as for “Surviving Sue” – don’t be silly. I’m honored that you have an interest in reading and that’s plenty for me. Love you oodles…and I have something funny to tell you – best for an email – so, yes, yes! I’ll send you a note. xo! 💕

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      1. I see you smiling Vicki.
        I am smiling too my dear friend.
        WP does the trick of “unsubscribing” a lot, it is a nuisance.
        Thanks so much for your email .
        I appreciate your friendship and wonderful support.
        It is important to me that I finish “Surviving Sue” because it deserves 5 stars and more !
        Love you lots like jelly tots lady 💖 xo
        Have a wonderful new week !

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        1. I didn’t think my smile could become bigger…now it’s a grin! Love you, Maggie! And the “love you lots like jelly tots” is the best, best, best! Sending hugs! 💕🥰💕

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          1. Aww likewise Vicki 💕🤗💕
            Big hugs back to you my friend xo

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              1. Going to sleep now Vicki.
                I know 🙄 its very late.
                Speak soon lovely lady ❤️

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  9. Congratulations, Vicki, on the wonderful thoughts about your writing, and for overcoming the past.

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    1. You are so kind, Tim. I really appreciate your comment and your support! Big smiles to you! 🥰

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  10. Happy 2nd birthday to “Surviving Sue”.

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    1. Bridget…thank you so much. Sending love to you today. 💕

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  11. Wow, I love Jim’s review. He is spot on about your remarkable writing, ability to heal and inspire, and the power to transform. So glad you shared this – and happy birthday to Surviving Sue!! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Thank you! We should have cake! xo, dear Wynne! 🥰

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  12. Happy 2nd Bookiversary! I’m so proud of your incredible book journey and the impact it has had on the world!!!

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    1. Mary! Thank you so much for coming along for the ride…it means so much to me…and thank you for your love of Lisa, too! And hey…”Bookiversary”.
      Fun! xo! 🥰💕🥰

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      1. I appreciate how Lisa finds beauty and goodness in the simple things – a lost art!

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        1. Aww! I’ll be talking to her soon! Good timing! I’ll tell her you said hi! 🥰❤️🥰

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          1. Please add my special hugs to her!

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            1. Absolutely! She sends love and hugs back to you! 🥰

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  13. Has it been two years already! What a wonderful and thoughtful review. Your book is one that I never stop thinking about.

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    1. Oh, Elizabeth. What a wonderful thing to say! Your support – right out of the gate – was so impactful. Then AND now! Sending big hugs! 🥰❤️🥰

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  14. happy two to your book and amazing how it continues to reach out and touch others over time and never stops growing in the help it offers people who read it.

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    1. Love ya, Beth. Thanks for alllll of your support and positivity. 🥰❤️🥰

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    The kudos you continue to received couldn’t happen to a more generous and kind person. Just lovely, Vicki.

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    1. Oh my. Many thanks, dear Dr. Stein. Many thanks! ❤️❤️❤️

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        You are most welcome, Vicki.

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  16. Congrats and Happy Bookaversary, Vicki 🥳

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    1. Xo! Much love! 🥰❤️🥰

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  17. Congratulations on your two-year anniversary. I’m excited about your current project. Of course, I’ll be a customer and wish you the best with it.

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    1. Your support has meant the world to me, Pete! Thank you so much. I can’t wait to share more about what’s cooking. I hope you’ll like it! 🥰

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  18. It sounds like a heartfelt and encouraging book filled with raw emotions. I wish to read Surviving Sue. That was an amazing compliment, Vicki! Happy to the heart

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    1. Thank you, Hazel! 🥰

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      1. You’re most welcome, Vicki. Have a blessed week ahead!

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        1. You, too, dear Hazel! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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  19. Happy 2nd book birthday, Vicki! I’m happy for the encouragin phone calls and emails you received. What a lovely endorsement you got from Jim! Yes, readers who have similar situations as yours, by reading your book, feel they’re not alone. That’s the power of behind the book. Have a lovely week!

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    1. You are so lovely, Miriam. Thank you! Agree, agree! Xo! 🥰

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  20. Happy birthday, Surviving Sue! You must share your aging secrets ’cause you don’t look a day over 21 months.

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    1. Thanks for the giggles, Mark! 😊😁😊

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  21. Great reviews! Gotta make you feel inside Vicki. Hopefully makes the tough challenges and questions you faced on how to write your story all the worthwhile now. Good for you.

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    1. Aww…thank you so much, Brian. Grateful, grateful for your support! 🥰

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    1. Thank you so much, Ashley! 🥰

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  22. Another great review, my friend. I really enjoy reading these and seeing that others came to similar conclusions after reading your book. To me, it’s a validation that the main point of your book is important and that it’s resonating with a lot of people.

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    1. Edward…your support means so much to me. Thank you for your close read, thoughtful review and on-going insight. Appreciate you! 🥰

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      1. Always a pleasure, my friend. I’m already looking forward to the next one.

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        1. Aren’t you the best! Thank you! 🥰

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  23. Wow! What a wonderful review. Congratulations, Vicki.

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    1. Thank you, Jennie! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. You’re welcome! 💕

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  24. So well deserved Vicki. I’m a huge fan of you and your story. (As you know). Happy Birthday to your book!!! 💕

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    1. Thank you, dear one! Hope you had a great weekend of festivities! Sending love! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. It was wonderful Vicki. Thanks for remembering. 💕

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        1. You bet! I was sending love and good vibes! 🥰❤️🥰

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  25. Wow! What a wonderful endorsement by your colleague. I am glad that so many people are in your corner!
    Well deserved!
    Happy new week to you!

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    1. Adore you…thanks so much, Nancy Lou! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. Adore you more Vicky Lou!
        🥰🥰🥰

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        1. ❤️❤️❤️

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  26. Congrats, Vicki. His review is spot-on, as another commented here. And having just finished your book, I can attest to its transformative power. A hard book to read at times (so painful) and hard to write at times, I imagine. But what you’ve given in return to readers, to those who have experienced some of what you have, and to those who haven’t but now have a better understanding and compassion for those who have, is well worth it–a blessing, in fact, for all.

    Hugs, Deborah

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    1. Oh my goodness. Many thanks to you, Deborah, for your close read and magnificent review. I’m an admirer…you write so poignantly about relationships in your book, “When Things Go Missing”. A reminder that love, loss and trauma swim together – universal threads connecting many of us. Grateful to you for taking in my story and seeing the good. Much love to you! 💕💕💕

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      1. My pleasure! Love to you too!

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    2. Great pointvof view

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  27. Happy two-year anniversary to your amazing book, Vicki, and I’m not surprised that its ripple effect of helping others continues to flow. I’m so happy for you, so I’m sending Big hugs, my friend! Enjoy the glow because it’s here to stay! ❤️💫🎉🤗

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    1. Oh my goodness…thank you, Lauren. Your support and on-going positivity are gifts! Xo! 🥰

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      1. Always, my friend 🩷🌼🩷🌼🩷😍

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        1. ❤️❤️❤️

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  28. Happy 2-year Anniversary Dr. V. 🎉 This just goes to show how you’ve remained relevant years later! This is such a hopeful message my friend. Thanks for sharing! 🤗🙏🏼🥰

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    1. Love you…for so many reasons! Thanks for bringing the light, dear Kym! 🥰

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      1. Copy that and ditto that my dear sweet Vicki! 🙏🏼 I appreciate your generous light too my friend. 💡😍🪔

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        1. So much love…xo! 💕

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          1. AMEN! 🤗💞🥰💖😍

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  29. An excellent and well deserved review! 😎😎

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  30. WOW! WOW! and WOW! Jim’s review is spot on and well-deserved, my friend! Happy BookVersary! 💖💖💖

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    1. Love you, my Vickie sister! Xo! ❤️

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  31. Your resilience and honesty inspire so many. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

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