“Surviving Sue” – At Harper College!

If you’re in the Chicago area…I’d love to see you at Harper College, courtesy of The Cultural Arts Committee, when I read from “Surviving Sue” on Thursday, November 6 from 11am – 12:15 pm.

I’m a member of the wonderful Barrington Writers Workshop and wrote a short post on their site – about returning to a college campus I love – to share excerpts from my book:

Stepping into the River

I’ve found the prospect of book promotion to be daunting for many authors  – much more than the writing itself. In the two years since my memoir, “Surviving Sue” was published, I’ve wrestled with how and when to squirm my way into a spotlight. Even the smallest one. It can be unnerving to talk about oneself, craft the various versions of sound bites and “elevator pitches” to suit varying audiences. Interviews on podcasts, radio programs, table talk at book fairs and more. But…I’ll let you in on a secret. It gets easier, bit by bit.

Talking about our books and asking others for input about promotion requires energy and grit but it’s not without rewards. I foolishly thought the first six weeks or so post book launch would be the make it or break it season for my book, but I couldn’t have been more wrong. The slow simmer – allowing readers to react, share their input, interact with the author is a gateway to book club events, speaking engagements and opportunities to see the writer’s work through readers’ eyes.

When an offer to return to my favorite campus arrived, I was both giddy with excitement and overwhelmed. Instantly a quote from  the Greek philosopher Heraclitus came to mind:

“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”

When I return to Harper College on November 6 to read from “Surviving Sue” it will be a homecoming of sorts, but I’m stepping into the river with new shoes. I’m not the Dean, I’m not a faculty member or a former student. I’m Vicki – the author who dove into the topic of intergenerational healing by telling the story of my complicated family, especially the secrets my mom, Sue, perpetuated for years.

I’m grateful to my writer friends at the Barrington Writers Workshop for their endless support and enthusiasm. It’s a gift to be surrounded by creative folks who generously cheer one another on. It’s a newer river for me…one that I’m grateful to be swimming in.

I’ve loved the input I’ve received thus far about what to read on November 6. The themes in “Surviving Sue” run the gamut from mental health and elder care to disability and diversity topics and touches of humor, too.

If you’ve read and have a favorite excerpt, I’d love to know about it. Reader feedback is immensely helpful. This handout, available on my business site, continues to draw loads…of downloads…from clients and book club readers, describing the themes and threads in “Surviving Sue“:

Thank you for your support and interest in my story. The dividends continue to pay off as I find myself helping others write for wellness and resilience. Thanks, too, to my supportive publisher friends at Eckhartz Press, Rick Kaempfer and David Stern.

Cheers to all!

Vicki 💝

Lagniappe? A little more? Thanks much for the inquiries about my work-in-progress. I’m on track to share more…soon! It’s unlike anything I’ve ever written and I can’t wait to fill you in.


Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue | Eckhartz Press.

Check out this link to learn more about my book “Surviving Sue”.

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98 responses to ““Surviving Sue” – At Harper College!”

  1. Good luck in Palatine, Vicki, though you won’t need it. They should hold a parade. You will knock them out!

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    1. I’m giggling. Thank you, dear Dr. Stein. 😉❤️😉

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  2. Agree with Dr. Stein, you’ve got this and you’ll knock it out of the park. Your voice matters and it makes a difference.

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    1. Clay! Thank you so much. That means a lot. Appreciate you! 🥰

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  3. That’s exciting for you Vicki. You’ll do great. There’s so much wisdom to share from your book!

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    1. Awww…Michelle. Thank you…ever grateful to you for reading. Xo! ❤️

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      1. Hugs my friend. Enjoy your Sunday. 🤗

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  4. This sounds like an extra special author reading event, Vicki. You’re stepping into the familiar river a different person. Good luck and have fun! 💕

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    1. You get me! Thanks, Ab. Always grateful for your support! 🥰

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  5. Slow simmer. Gets easier bit by bit. Love over fear. You’re always a teacher and counselor Vicki. A credit to you. I don’t have a particular suggestion but just feel that any piece you pick from the book will have a great message. So cool that you’re able to give back to a place you know so well. Let us know about all the fun when it happens!!! Can’t wait to hear. 📕📕😎😎😎

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    1. You are the best, Brian! Thank you for the encouraging words. Wish I could teleport you and Wynne in…could you work on that?!? 😉❤️😉

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      1. I’ll get right on the teleportation Vicki. Wynne and I will definitely be there. I’m not ruling out some Klingons and Romulans on our tail, but we’ll definitely teleport in for the reading. We;ll be there in spirit no matter what. Ha, ha.

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        1. Ohhh! The Star Trek references! Love it. I’ll play Picard and say “make it so” LOL! 🥰🤣🥰

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          1. I need to move fast. I googled “teleportation” and of course, go lost in a bunch of big words that make my brain spasm. But have no fear, I’m working on it. Early NOvember right. I have time. I better get cracking. Ha, ha. Quantum Teleportation Here we Come.

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            1. Go, Brian!!!! 🤣❤️🤣

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  6. Have fun with it, Vicki!

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    1. Thank you, Jane! 🥰❤️🥰

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  7. How exciting, Vicki! As everyone else has mentioned, you’ll do great. You have so much wisdom to share, and always do so with such generosity of heart! 💖

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    1. Erin…thank you, thank you! 🥰❤️🥰

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  8. I love that river quote, Vicki. I’m going to remember it. And it’s very exciting to be returning to Harper as an author! The ripples in the “new” river will spread far and wide. And until right this moment, I had never seen your business site. Wow! I clicked through to the hand-out and downloads and caregiver information and reviews and topics. I don’t know how I missed it, but it was fun to explore a “new to me” side of your online presence. You’re a force, Vicki. 💕

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    1. You are so dear, Melanie…thank you for always bringing the enthusiasm and love. Soul sister you are! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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      1. Ha! I like that term Soul Sister; I’m honored. Thank you. Xo! ❤️🥰

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  9. Yes, a parade, and may it float on and on!

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    1. Love you, Joy! 😉🥰😉

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  10. Oh Vicki, this is amazing !
    I wish I could be there 🤗 so many people will benefit from your wisdom.
    I am so happy for you.❤️🥰❤️🥰
    The world needs to hear “Surviving Sue” !

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    1. Same! I wish I had the magic to send you across the Atlantic for a visit! Thank you so much, Maggie. I’ll always hold a special spot in my heart for you thanks to YOUR big heart and deep read of “Surviving Sue”. xo! 💝

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      1. I will be there in spirit Vicki ❤️
        It was an honour to read your book my friend.
        I admire your courage and bravery , and wish I could hug you and sweet Lisa so tight xo
        Never say never !
        Tots to the jellies always 🙏

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        1. Love it! And you know Lisa loves a hello and a hug from you! I will be delivering later! xoxoxo! 💝🥰💝

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          1. Yayy Vicki xoxox 🥰❤️🥰

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  11. Oh, how I wish I could be there in person! Love all that you do to promote wellness and healing. Turning fear into love seems to be one of your many, many talents! Cheering on all the amazing work you do, dear, Vicki!

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    1. Ah…you, you, you! The first to synthesize the story of Sue by using the phrase “fear into love”. Endlessly grateful to you for your support and insight, Wynne! xoxox! 💝

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  12. This is wonderful, Vicki! Your theme of presentation sounds great. I would attend if I were in Chicago. Have a great time! 😍

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    1. You are so lovely, Miriam! Thank you oodles. xo! 💝

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  13. I can’t wait to find out more about your novel. How exciting to return to your college for a presentation. I love this line: “It’s a gift to be surrounded by creative folks who generously cheer one another on.”

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    1. Thank you, Elizabeth! I can’t wait to share more. Appreciate you! 🥰❤️🥰

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  14. How wonderful and inspiring, Dr. Vicki! 👏🏻 I wish I could be there. 😊

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    1. Wouldn’t that be the best? Wynne and I keep dreaming about getting all of our dear blogging friends together. Like a family reunion! One day, one day! Thanks so much, Michele! 💝🥰💝

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      1. It would be and when that happens, I’ll be there! 🙋🏼‍♀️🥰

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        1. Yay! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

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  15. This is so good, “The dividends continue to pay off as I find myself helping others write for wellness and resilience.”

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    1. Love you, Mary! Thank you! 🥰

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  16. Way to go, Vicki! Have a wonderful time sharing your words and wisdom with the world. (Okay, who knew there were so many words that begin with “w”?) Wish (another one!) I could be there!

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    1. Smiling!!! Thank you! 🥰❤️🥰

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  17. Wonderful, Victoria! I hope the very best comes from your event. 😊

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    1. Thank you, Tim! Appreciate your good wishes! 🥰

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      1. My pleasure, Victoria. 😊

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  18. Congrats on all you are accomplishing with getting your book out there. So many incredible lessons you’ve taught your readers, through your difficult times. You can read so many excerpts and the response will be the same. All positive. One that stands out for me, is when you finally met your angel with the blue halo. It’s incredibly inspiring and such a poignant turning point in your story. Thank you for sharing your memoir with the world. I still believe that one day it will be a movie. 💕

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    1. Adore you, dear Alegria, for your love and support and your excerpt idea is wonderful…thank you so much. I love how you’ve seen the layers and depth. Seen me! Xo! Sending big hugs!
      🥰❤️🥰

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      1. Always my friend! You are quite amazing. And I am deeply inspired by you. 💕

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        1. Right back at you! I’ve fallen behind in keeping up with all of your beautiful, creative pursuits. Hope all is going well in every way.
          Much love! 🥰❤️🥰

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          1. It is. Thanks my friend. I’ve been spending a fair bit of time on Substack, but I will post here too. Thanks for the love! Hope you’re having a beautiful Monday. 💕

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  19. How wonderful to be invited back to your old campus to speak. I loved what you said about book promotion too. I’m only 2 weeks out from my book release and the need to keep promoting seems a bit dauntless, never-ending. I’m glad to hear it get easier in time! Also, I love your flyer with all the themes. What a great idea! Did you make it yourself?

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    1. You are such a bright light, dear Deborah! Thank you…thank you! I love that you love the flyer. Yes! Made it myself…I’m no pro but I really enjoy making graphics and resources. Xo! 🥰

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  20. Promoting ourselves doesn’t come naturally for most of us. You have nothing to worry about, Vicki. I’m always impressed by how comfortable and genuine you are on camera. I suspect it will be no different in front of a live audience. They’ll connect with you immediately.

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    1. You are such a delight, Pete. Thank you for your good wishes! 🥰❤️🥰

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  21. this is so exciting, Vicki, and I’m very happy for you. I so get what you’re saying about self-promotion being so vey challenging. it used to be part of my job in advertising to do pr and promotion for clients and I had no problem at all, but for myself, eeek! here’s the thing, though. you know your subject, you are so good with people, you are talking about your book and your life and these are things that you could discuss no matter what kind of questions come your way. you always come across as so warm and welcoming and friendly, that I know that audience will quickly connect with you. you will be great –

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    1. Whoa my goodness…I’m humbled by your comment, Beth! Many thanks…and I hear you. Love your observation about self-promotion. Right, right! Xo! 🥰

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  22. I wish I could be there, Vicki, and anything you read from your book or talk about in general will be helpful and profound to your audience. You are a natural, so even though self-promotion is difficult and downright scary sometimes, you have it covered. By the way, I love your flyer, and Congrats on this wonderful opportunity! ❤️🎉

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    1. Lauren…thank you! You are so sweet. Appreciate the kind words!
      🥰❤️🥰

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      1. You’re so welcome, Vicki! You deserve all the praise! 😘💕

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        1. Awww…I dunno about that…xo! 🥰

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          1. It’s true, Vicki! Happy Monday! Hugs 🥰

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  23. Yay! I’m happy to see all these opportunities open up for you. Or more to the point, you’re kicking down doors and making them happen. Even better!

    Speaking of, I agree with your mini-essay: promotion is the worst. I’d probably have sold three times as many copies of my novel if I’d been comfortable with it.

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    1. Thank you so much, Mark! Yes, yes — talking about ourselves, our books? Tricky business for sure. Sending hugs to the north. See me waving? xo! 💝

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  24. If I can, I’ll be there, Vicki. I’d love to meet you in person and hear you read from your book.

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    1. Mary! That would be such an honor! Thank you for considering. Sending love and big, big hugs! 💝🥰💝

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  25. Have fun, Vicki Lou!
    🥰😊🍁🍂😊🥰

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    1. Xo! Thank you, Nancy Lou! 🥰❤️🥰

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  26. Very exciting! Rock on! 🤘 I like the graphic idea too😎

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    1. Yay! Thank you, Todd! 🥰😎🥰

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  27. Awesome, Vicki! I just added it to my calendar, so I’ll be there, God willing, with my copy to follow along.

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    1. Oh my goodness! I’m so honored, Edward! I hope it works out. 🥰
      Thank you for being patient with me…I’ve fallen waaay behind in reading blog posts, but I’ll catch up! 🥰

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      1. Do not worry, my friend. I know that you are super focused on your special project, which already has a place on my reading list for next year. Yes, and hopefully Mary can make it so we can take a selfie.

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        1. Yay! All of that sounds terrific. Sending hugs your way! 🥰

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  28. Oh wow, how AWESOME Vicki! If I were in there area, I’d be there. I know your audience will be in for a FANtabulous treat! 😍💖🥂 Love, hugs, smooches and all the best my friend! Cheers!

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    1. Love you! Thank you, dear Kym. I’ll feel the love whether you’re physically in the space or not. I’ll receive! xo!
      😉💝😉

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      1. Awwww Dr. V, you are some kind of wonderful, and you’re going to be absolutely FANtabulous on stage! You got this girlfriend! 🤩💖😍

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        1. You are love and light personified! xo! 💝

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          1. Vicki, “kindness” is your first name. Thank you from my heart! 💖💞💖

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  29. I wish I was close enough to come to this event.
    congrats my friend

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    1. Yvette! Thank you so much. Sending Friday morning hugs! 🥰

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      1. thanks – I need those – and sending some back! 🥰
        also hope you have a great weekend

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        1. You, too! 🥰❤️🥰

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  30. “It’s a newer river for me…one that I’m grateful to be swimming in.” Great Line – You are ever-changing – like a river – and now you return to Harper as an author!!!! Bravo, my friend! Your words about self-promotion resonate loudly with me – Best of luck but you won’t need it – you’ve got this!!!! XOV

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    1. Love you oodles, dear Vickie…thanks so much. 💝🥰💝

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  31. Oh how I wish I were able to attend, Vicki! They will love you!

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    1. You are the best, Lori! Thank you. I am ridiculously behind in reading WP posts, so let me apologize if I’ve missed good stuff from your head/heart. Appreciate you oodles! 💝🥰💝

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      1. So adorable we were both writing this to each other at the same time! 🤣🥰🤣

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        1. I know…made me smile SO BIG! 🥰❤️🥰

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