Holiday Hugs

This post has become an annual holiday tradition – sharing my mom’s love of Christmas while highlighting her giving heart and the ever-worthy Clearbrook organization. Thank you so much for all of your support and kindness – all year long, dear readers. Here’s to a happy, healthy 2026 for all!


Santa Sue

My mom, Sue, was a party girl at heart and Christmas was her favorite holiday. Even when money was tight, she’d find ways to rally people together with her infectious humor and charisma, often for a good cause.

Truthfully, though, any day could’ve been a dress up day for Sue – see pic above. A favorite photo of my mom from 1973, proudly modeling a handmade Santa suit, whipped together by pulling an all-nighter.

Sue saved Christmas that year for dozens of disabled children by stepping in for the scheduled Santa who became ill. It’s a holiday memory my sweet sister Lisa will remember forever.

Sue was a terrific last-minute Santa stand-in. But the suit? It barely held together for the party, but it didn’t matter. The little ones were thrilled to see “Santa” and only Lisa and I knew the secret.


As we wrap up 2025, please consider year-end giving – to any worthy organization or group. It matters.

Lisa and I were thrilled by the many wonderful donations from blogging friends to the Clearbrook organization last month – after I wrote about “Giving Tuesday”. Holiday hugs to all – from me and Lisa, too!

Vicki 💝

Lisa and I talked about this pic recently…our favorite childhood photo…just the two of us. Me and my big sis. ❤️

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26 responses to “Holiday Hugs”

  1. I love ths story. Kudos to Sue for stepping up.

    Those cheap Santa suits really don’t hold together well. A few years ago, a group of co-workers and I did the HoHoHoliday 5K in support of Make a Wish. Our Santa suits barely made it through the morning. I think I still have mine somewhere—rips and all.

    I wish you all the very best for Christmas and the New Year, Vicki! 🤗

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    1. Oh my goodness…I can’t imagine how a thrown-together Santa suit would hold up for a 5K. Too funny! Thanks for the giggle to start the day, Michelle, and for being you!
      Hugs and love! 💝😊💝

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      1. There is photo evidence on my blog if you want to check it out:

        https://boomerecocrusader.com/15-sure-fire-ways-to-get-on-santas-nice-list/

        Enjoy your Sunday! 🤗

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        1. Michelle! Thank you — LOL! I nearly had a ‘spit take’ with my sip of tea here at my desk! Too funny and so perfect. Much love to you! 😜❤️😜

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  2. I wish you a blessed Christmas 🫶

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    1. Mich! Thank you so much. All the best to you and your family. 💝

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  3. Merry Christmas, dear Vicki!

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    1. Oh…same, same to you, my friend. xo! 💝

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  4. What a sweet memory. I love that photo of you and your sister. Holiday hugs to you too, dear Vicki 😘

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    1. Aww! Thank you, Deborah! I will tell Lisa you like that photo, too! Xo! 🥰

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  5. Merry Christmas, Vicki. Treasure these memories.

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    1. Thank you, Bridget. Appreciate you!
      ❤️🥰❤️

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  6. A great parent-as-Santa memory, Vicki! Happy Holidays!

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    1. Perfectly put, Dave! Thank you! ❤️⭐️❤️

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  7. Happy memories of Sue and a heartwarming photo of you and Lisa ❤️
    Thank you for all your thought provoking, interesting posts this year.
    Wishing you a happy family Christmas time Vicki and a healthy, fun 2026.

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    1. Margaret…all the same back to you! I’m so glad we’re connected. Sending holiday hugs and love to you, my friend. ❤️⭐️❤️

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  8. What memories, Vicki! May you and your family have a warm and blessed Christmas season.

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    1. Thank you, dear Joy! You, too! ❤️🎄❤️

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  9. Such a beautiful and adorable photo of you and Lisa. And love reading this story about Santa Sue saving the day. She had a big heart. Wishing you and your family a lovely Merry Christmas ahead, Vicki! 💕🥰

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    1. Thank you, Ab! Hugs and love to each of you! 🥰☀️🥰

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  10. Good memories, Vicki. I played Santa a couple of times. Once, I had to fill in at the last minute for an event at school. I enjoy retelling the story of having a second-grade child sit on my lap and asking, “Are you my teacher?” 🤣🤣🤣

    Happy holidays to you and your family. 😊

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    1. I bet you were an awesome Santa!!! Thank you so much for your friendship, Pete — all year long! ❤️☀️❤️

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  11. Love how you celebrate Sue’s big heart and willingness to step up! Here’s to you and your wisdom, generosity, and incredible energy for helping others! Absolutely beautiful and inspiring! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Oh my goodness. YOU are oh-so generous with your kind comment, dear Wynne. Love you! ❤️🥰❤️

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  12. I remember seeing the Santa Sue picture and remember the sweet story.
    But I am not sure I saw the picture of you and Lisa from your childhood. How sweet!
    Merry Christmas dear Vicki Lou! May all the Christmas Joy come to you and yours.
    🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄

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    1. Much love to you, Nancy Lou! I’ll tell Lisa you said hello — she’ll love that.
      Sending wishes for a wonderful new year, too! ❤️🎄❤️

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