Putting in a Good Word

This Neil Gaiman quote is pretty darn spectacular:

“Everything good that happened to my writing career happened because someone, normally another writer, helped me. Suggested me for something, put in a good word, and so on. The idea was always that you help others and they help others in their turn. It’s not a win or lose game.”

-Neil Gaiman

So very true! But despite the camaraderie, the book promotion process is brutal for we indie authors. I love showcasing fun stories about connecting with former students or sharing input from book club readers–or details about events.

I’ve loved the response thus far to my debut novel, Slivers, and continue to feel a second wave of gratitude when readers dig into my memoir, Surviving Sue, published three years ago.

But there are quiet days and weeks when the calendar lightens up, the phone doesn’t ring and my email gets strangely quiet. I assume it’s a nudge from the universe to get crackin’ on my next book, so I get to work, but there’s still a pesky voice within, irritating the heck out of me:

That’s it. That’s all. Hope you enjoyed the fanfare ’cause it’s done.

Is it–finito–I wonder? I check for fresh reviews daily on Amazon (for Surviving Sue) and on Goodreads for both Surviving Sue and Slivers. Has the ta-dah concluded?

I did the most daring thing two weeks ago when the slump hit. I actually “DM-ed” a celebrity author whose book aligns with my purpose and mission, asking if I might send her a book. Or two…

I joked to Wynne Leon that I now know the precise number of characters allowed in a private message on Instagram. I used every single one in my fervent message, trying to sound like a reputable, credible author and not a crazed fan. (No reply received, in case you’re holding out hope for me.)

No, this isn’t a Vicki Pity Party. Honest, it’s not, but if you have suggestions, ideas for further promotion, readership, I’m all ears.

Unsure if I should be a Substacker, I dusted off my platform there, wrote one article and have a whopping six followers.

  • Should I invest more time on a WordPress alternative?
  • Should I record audio versions of Surviving Sue and Slivers, as some have suggested.
  • Should I summon the chutzpah and visit more local, indie bookstores, offering my wares–books and workshops?

Or…do I simply face forward, fingers on the keyboard and continue my “work in progress”? I’m about 7000 words in and it’s flowing but I wonder if I’m hopping to my next book baby too soon.

So here I sit, humbly asking for a favor. If you’ve read and liked my work and wouldn’t mind offering a review on Amazon and/or Goodreads, I’d appreciate your support. (No, there’s no eBook for Slivers yet…)

Amazon.com: Surviving Sue: Atkinson, Dr. Vicki

Slivers by Vicki Atkinson | Goodreads

Surviving Sue by Vicki Atkinson | Goodreads

And…if you are so inclined, referring and recommending my books to others, sharing the links to this blog and/or my business site, Atkinson Group Solutions, to learn more about workshops, like those highlighted by the Chicago Writers Association, would be lovely.

Putting in a good word, the old-fashioned way, no algorithmic high hurdles required. Thank you, friends, for your patience, support and consideration. It means the world to me.

-Vicki 💝

Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue and Slivers.

Check out this link to learn more about my book Surviving Sue – all about resilience and love. Check out this link to order Slivers…a ghost story with surprising twists. Click here for the interview with my publisher, Rick Kaempfer from Eckhartz Press.

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75 responses to “Putting in a Good Word”

  1. I giggled over the part about contacting a famous author, Vicki. I did something very similar this summer with a reporter and to my amazement? Nothing. No response. But Wynne, comes to mind – we tried!! And we will try something else and something else. Something will shift, something will work. Or, maybe we are sent in a new direction which is equally helpful. I say keep working on your new project. It’s a strong idea. 💝

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    1. You are such a love! Good advice, all of that. I’m amazed by writer friends who seem to find ways to balance new projects with promotion work. I just don’t know how it’s done–feels so splintered, ya know? Thanks much for the voice of reason and the nudge. I’ll be in touch before too long to get your eyes on a couple of things. Always grateful for your friendship and brilliant input! xoxoxoxox! 💝💝💝

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      1. Please, please do send whatever, whenever. I haven’t been in the position of promoting while writing something new, but I do understand the whole splintered feeling. It can wreak havoc on productivity. I appreciate you, my sister-friend! xoxo ❤️😘❤️

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        1. Will do! Maybe by mid-next week? I’ll be interested in your thoughts, as always! xoxoxoxo! 💝😊💝

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  2. No more traveling for awhile, so I’m home! I’m more than happy to review what you want to send. 😊💝

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    1. Thank you, thank you! 😊💝😊

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  3. Trying to promote a book is tough work, Vicki. How much to do? What to do? And many authors have more of a “writing brain” than a “marketing brain.” But you seem to be making excellent and targeted efforts, and I wish you luck despite the setbacks here and there. (Tough to get very well-known writers to respond.)

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  4. Rooting for you, Vicki. As you know, new therapists to private practice go through periods when the phone doesn’t ring and no texts or emails come from prospective clients. They worry that they will never get another referral. The good therapists survive to hear the phone ringing endlessly. You will survive this moment and happily encounter the literary world’s attention again. Bet on it.

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    1. Dr. Stein…great wisdom right there! Many thanks! ❤️😉❤️

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  5. I think you’re doing great, Victoria, and think the results will be wonderful!

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    1. You are so dear! Thank you, Tim! I feel terrible about being slow with my reading of your terrific book, The Valley Walker! 😳❤️😳

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      1. Read at your own rate, Victoria. I hope you like it, but if you don’t, I understand. Taste for good reading varies.

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        1. I do like it — very much! You are a terrific writer and I need to prioritize my time better! Thank you, Tim! ❤️😉❤️

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  6. Oh, I love this, Vicki!!!
    What? Seriously, your dwarfs aren’t being knocked on every day your phones aren’t ringing up the hook your email is not flooded? Can I send you my father or my mother lol I had such grand with my book even finally getting an ISBN number but for the life of me, I’ve no time working family obligations, which I love!

    And though, I do think of that book write down snippet wonder when I’d have time even write, trying to find a publisher, an editor, etc.! but hey if you strike Gould with your requests and become famous with yours, I’ll
    Grab on to your coat tails.
    Tee hee-:)
    You’re famous to me so many of us here XOXO🩷

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    1. Grinning…yes I am! Thank you for the perspective AND the giggles. So grateful to be in your orbit.
      !!!❤️😉❤️!!!

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  7. I had a thought for you. (Yay! A thought 😉 ). “Slivers” could be a crossover book into the YA genre. That could be an entirely new market for you. Or maybe you’re already doing this? I’ve been a member of SCBWI for years and I used to go to meetings in Orange County, CA. Whenever a member published a book, they were invited to speak to the group. Also, they promoted events to sell books, etc. Here’s a link for your local chapter: https://www.scbwi.org/regions/illinois

    Yes, I’d be happy to write reviews for you.

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    1. You are so perceptive! I’ve wondered about a YA spin…thank you for the encouraging idea, the info and link! You are always so thoughtful and resourceful, Elizabeth! Thank you oodles! ❤️😉❤️

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      1. I’m thrilled I gave you a new market. I wasn’t sure if you already worked that angle. SCBWI is a great place to network with editors and writers. Everyone is so supportive of each other. 💕

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        1. You are amazing!!! Appreciate you! ❤️

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          1. You’re so wonderful! 💕

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  8. I saw that you followed me on Substack. Thanks. You’ll see that I am pretty quiet on there. I just haven’t figured out how it fits or how to use it.

    I feel the same way about my coaching business. I do presentations, get some mild interest and then…crickets. I think we just keep on plugging away as long as we believe in what we’re doing and it feels enjoyable.

    Hugs to you. And I’m excited at the prospect of another book. 🤗

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    1. Michelle…thanks for all of that! Yep…sounds like we’re both figuring stuff out and I’m grateful for your good company!!! Plugging away — yes!
      Xo! 😘

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  9. Marketing is hard stuff, but just being authentic yourself is probably the best form of self-promotion. Sending big hugs, my friend! 💝

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    1. Erin…thank you! ❤️😉❤️

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  10. Interested in your substack experience. I always wonder about the other side of the street. But then … I’ forced to comment on this line: “That’s it. That’s all. Hope you enjoyed the fanfare ’cause it’s done.” My reaction. Oh pleeeeeeeaaaaaaaase, girl. That’s not happening. Your book is just getting started!!!!!

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    1. You’re hilarious, Brian! Thanks for the welcome giggles! I appreciate your positivity. Give little Miss Daisy some snuggles from me! ❤️😉❤️

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  11. You’re doing a fantastic job of promotion, Vickie, from what I can see. Marketing is not for the faint of heart! You seem to have a good blend of both the real world and the digital world in your mix.

    If I could offer a suggestion or two:

    A virtual author reading – eg Instagram Live or Zoom meeting inviting your community from around the world.
    If your publisher is game, an ongoing contest for a limited time – eg people who follow you, like a post and share a post get entered into a draw.
    If your publisher has not done so already, do media pitching to local and online book and indie book media and blogs.
    I’m not a Tik Tok person but I can see the viral wonders that the Book Tok community can do. So something you may want to research if you haven’t done so already.

    Good luck and keep up the good work. I do look forward to picking up Slivers. It’s on my list for Santa (the hubby) this year! 🙂

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    1. Ab! Your suggestions are astounding! Thank you SO much for taking the time to offer terrific advice. Wow! Your ongoing support and friendship means the world to me…you have a beautiful skill set — strategy and heart. Grateful you’re sprinkling awesome ideas my way!
      I’m honored to be on your Santa list! Big, big hugs! ❤️😉❤️

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  12. vicki – first i have to start off by telling you about an amazing thing that just happened. right before i got to your blog to read and respond, i had responded to a blogger in england, describing his group of friends and how they clear the park for others. in my response i used a word it haven’t had the occasion to use in a long while – camaraderie, the first word in your post that popped out to me. i know this sounds a bit crazy, but it was an amazing coincidence, and i love when stuff like this happens. now, back to the real response to your post. i bought your book and would be happy to read, review and share it with others. being an author is hard work and i’m happy to do my little part to help, besides i love your writing.

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    1. Beth!!!! I love those moments and they do happen between us! Camaraderie—not a word we throw around and yet there it was!

      I should’ve shared this with you a long time ago…very often your posts (both images and quotes, it varies) will point to something I’ve been mulling or wondering about at a “just under the radar” level of consciousness. I’ll read thoughts from you and they immediately ping and zing in my brain. Connecting with something related that’s on my mind, or in my heart. Don’t know how you do that, sister friend. It’s like the ultimate collective unconscious and I love it!

      Thank you for being you! ❤️❤️❤️

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  13. it is so frustrating. It got so bad, that I don’t even pay attention to promoting it anymore. I even forgot that I published a book this year. For me, it has been on to the next project. But that is just how my brain works. I tend not to linger on anything, I shall put in a good word for you, Dr. Vicki. I got ya.

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    1. Nigel…your perspective really helps. I’m naturally inclined to go “on to the next” but have so much doubt…wondering if I’m just giving in. 😜
      Your point about accepting and moving on is super helpful. And good grief! You needn’t do anything more! You’ve been a spectacular, supportive reader and friend. Grateful for your shoutouts and your heartfelt review. I don’t know how you manage it all. In awe.
      Xo! ❤️😉❤️

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      1. I will give Slivers a spot in my Halloween Series. I don’t have many followers, but every little helps. I release that series in a bit, just gathering my graphics and editing. I tend to write very messy. It is my pleasure to do this.

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        1. Nigel…thank you! I’m truly grateful to simply be connected with you.
          Sending big Thursday morning hugs!
          ❤️😉❤️

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          1. you’re welcome, Vicki.

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              1. it’s up now. Will gladly share in for 10 episodes, if you don’t mind.

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                1. Oh my gosh…thank you! ❤️😉❤️

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                  1. Ask and ye shall recieve. ☺️🙏 have a gorgeous day, Dr. Vicki

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                    1. You, too! You, too! ❤️😉❤️

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                    2. I shall. Thank you so much. 😊

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                    3. ❤️❤️❤️

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  14. Indie authors rival bloggers for being the most supportive of one another, I have found Indie authors with blogs are an even bigger force to be reckoned with!

    I have emailed a couple of well-known authors in the past. One responded with answers to my questions and some helpful advice, the other never bothered. Hope you hear back from yours!

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    1. Thank you, my friend! You’re right! Blogging authors and friends are the best! Appreciate you! ❤️😉❤️

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  15. Hang in there Vicki! I can relate to your situation. Sadly, I’m part of the problem right now though because I’ve had your book sitting on my dining room table since it arrived a few weeks ago, just waiting for me to remember that I do in fact, know how to read. 😅😱🤦‍♂️

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    1. Oh my gosh! No! You’re amazingly supportive…we’re all just busy! Thank you for all that you’ve done for me for four years — so grateful for your kindnesses and friendship, Todd. Get to it when you can…I’m juggling too much reading right now myself. 😜❤️😜

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  16. I’m laughing about the character limit on IG. You are so brave, my friend. It’s hard work and I love that you continue to show us again and again how to do it well! Love everything you do, dear Vicki!!

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    1. Good to giggle and not take ourselves too seriously, right? No matter how aspirational we might be! Big hugs, Mary Wynne! ❤️😉❤️

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  17. Oh, my friend. There is so much here, but I’m going to start with this: Have you ever done a strategic retreat? They are usually done at the organizational level to hammer out short- and long-term strategies. It sounds to me like you’re reaching a point where taking some time away in the form of a weekend retreat might benefit you.

    Laying out your purpose and vision on the table and really looking at where you want to take your personal and professional experiences, along with your heart for helping others, could help clarify the path ahead.

    I personally believe that your next project is extremely important, and you should take your time with it. I have never written a book before, but in my mind, I can picture it taking at least two to three years if I were in your shoes.

    I tried writing on other platforms and quickly became overwhelmed because it’s not just about writing but also about engaging with others. I canceled my Substack and Medium accounts and am now solely focused on WordPress because I want to enjoy my retirement, pursue reading and other hobbies, and avoid having to write long pieces several times a week.

    From what I’ve observed, if you want to make money at some point through a newsletter and paid subscribers, Substack is the place to go. But I believe that once a writer joins Substack, they should be fully committed to the platform to find success. It will probably take a few years to build a decent following and create the possibility of earning money.

    The only author I know who uses a professional website and Substack together is Susan Cain. I followed her and love her work, but paying a monthly fee to access her newsletter and other resources was a bit too much for me.

    Anyway, I think I’m getting too long here. My recommendation is to take a mini-retreat to clarify your way ahead. It could be that you need to move to Substack and build your center of gravity there. Then, move out aggressively in pursuit of your dreams!

    Hopefully, I didn’t come across as weird. If I did, I’m sorry, my friend. My passion gets the best of me sometimes. 😀

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    1. Edward….HOW DO YOU DO THAT? Honestly! I have another dear friend who thinks like you do about strategy and I talked to her last night and her advice? Step back so I can take it all in and lean into developing a fresh game plan — so I don’t feel like I’m bouncing around so much. Your thoughts align with hers so very well and I’m grateful you took the time to share. You know how much I value your insights and support. I surely do.
      And your observations about Substack? Very, very, helpful. I just don’t know that I have the bandwidth to devote to it for all the reasons you articulated. What I’m writing now feels real, true and authentic (the new project you’ve been so supportive of) and wandering off to try to build something else at the same time is just more than I can do without feeling as though I hate all of it. Same goes for the promotion aspect of Slivers and Surviving Sue. Just as you said…we need to preserve the enjoyment factor. I do believe you know me! 😜
      Oh- and guess what? One more spooky/fun observation on your part. Retreat, you say? I’m helping to lead a day-long retreat next week and one of the goals for attendees is about motivation related to writing, finding our place. Funny how we can build content for others and then realize it’s applicable to ourselves, too?
      Sorry for the lengthy reply…want you to know just how much I appreciate and admire you. Thank you for always being in my corner with wisdom. xo! 💝😊💝

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      1. Wow, look at that! I guess the universe is trying to say something. Your dear friend is awesome, and we’re seeing the same thing.

        Substack is very demanding, in my opinion, because its algorithm is similar to those of other social media platforms, constantly feeding users content from other people. So, writers can get lost in the never-ending scroll through other people’s content all day if they’re not careful. Intentionality is key on Substack.

        A retreat next week? Cool! Those can be very rewarding. I read an article not too long ago about a writer who goes on a mini-retreat every six months or so. He basically drives to a nearby hotel for two or three days and spends that time resting, thinking, writing, assessing, and so on. There’s something about unplugging from the world and not worrying about chores that helps him find balance and reenergize his life and writing.

        You’re very welcome, my friend. 🙏🏼

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        1. So many wonderful nuggets in your reply, Edward! I agree — there’s a synergy in these messages. I think I’ll listen! Thanks for everything!!! ❤️😉❤️

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          1. You’re so welcome, my friend. 🫶🏼

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  18. In my opinion and experience, the first few months that a book is out is only the start. When marketing is done well, it never stops. There are so many platforms that are now available to us where we can bring in more attention to our books, there’s social media, and so much more. Thank you, internet lol! You are just getting started, I can feel it- there are so many more readers out there for you. And to DM someone you don’t know that’s a more popular author takes a lot of guts, whether you get a reply or not you did it and that’s what matters most.

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    1. Pooja! I love the perspective you’re offering…the long view. 😉
      I’m not known for my patience, LOL. Thank you for this boost. You, dear one, are pretty darn fabulous…grateful to you for your sweet comment. Sending hugs and love! 😉❤️😉

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      1. Lol most of us writers are not particularly patient but with marketing we have no choice but to be! 😂❤️

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        1. Good grief, yes! Xo! 😜❤️😜

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  19. SO much from your post – I was trying to write this morning about not being able to write for the last two months because of all the family responsiblities – I couldn’t even write that! I know its temporary but geez! I totally get the crickets and frustration as an indie author – it is frustrating and hard – You are such a good writer and podcaster and support for all of us! Keep writing my talented friend – Sending Love from the other V

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    1. You’re the best, dear Vickie! Thank you so much. You understand. Monroe’s big move, and all of the usual juggling. We’ve done it all for so long, we forget the natural energy depletion. Definitely feel it with you. ❤️❤️❤️
      Having you on deck as a super understanding fellow author means the world. Sending super-sized hugs — from me and Lisa, too! ❤️❤️❤️

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      1. Thank you!!!! Sending hugs and love right back to you and Lisa 🩷

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        1. Received, received! xo! 💝💝💝

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    2. Oh my gosh! Did I get your dad’s name right?!? Monroe…? 😜❤️😜 Tell him “that other Vickie/Vicki” says hi! ❤️

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  20. Excellent memory and yes, you got his name, right? !!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

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    1. Yay! Hugs and love to all! ❤️😊❤️

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  21. Write (pun!) there with you, friend. It’s not easy, and it’s not fun. I have long since stopped daily checking for new reviews. (Now it’s just several times weekly. 😉 ) But I have yet to figure out the magic marketing… model! Ha! I did come up with a 3rd M! 🙂 Just keep on keeping on.

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    1. Haha…mmm…magic marketing model! Thanks for the encouraging things you’ve already shared…I do think we’re all in the same boat…just sometimes I think I’m missing both oars! Hugs, hugs! 😜💝😜

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      1. Missing both oars! I’m trying to use paper plates.

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  22. The marketing can’t ever end, Vicki, and it’s challenging today because of the extraordinary amount of competition and short attention spans. I have at least 20 books to read and so many more in my shopping cart for the distant future.

    When my rosary book was published, I received countless messages thanking me for a clear guide to pray the rosary. Unfortunately, people pass on these books or get them from the library where one purchase reaches 10, 20 readers. Yes, we want our message or story to get out, but we also want to at least recoup our expenses if not make a living.

    You are doing a great job of marketing. Keep going, Girlfriend.

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    1. Love your perspective, Mary. It helps so much to receive input and guidance like yours. Thank you for being in my corner and sharing your experience, expertise and knowledge. Super grateful. Sending big Monday morning hugs and love to you! ❤️😘❤️

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