Gratitude & Goodness


I love this prayer, courtesy of Emerson.  Holidays, especially Easter, bring memories of my dad forward in distinct detail.  I cannot believe he’s been gone for nearly twenty-six years because I feel his presence every day.  He taught me lessons in gratitude that are daily refrains in my life.  Despite experiencing unfathomable losses and tragedies, he set an example of finding the sunshine, no matter how dark the horizon.

Dad delighted in simple pleasures, especially in the care and keeping of others. His knack for ‘seeing the good’ was his soulful gift to those around him and I’m compelled to continue his legacy, to keep him near.

Emerson’s “Prayer of Thanks” is simple and much like the Lord’s prayer, it’s an easy one for me to recall and I often find myself silently reciting it as I consider just how lucky I’ve been in life.  Thank you, dad. 

As reflective and thoughtful as my dad could be, he had a silly side, too.  I wish our DD (darling daughter) had more time with him before he passed away but cherishing his inner goofball and his odd love of Easter treats (that I find inedible) is a silly story worth sharing.  My post on Heart of the Matter today has the details and some photo evidence.  

Vicki 😉



33 responses to “Gratitude & Goodness”

  1. Lovely prayer. Goodness sent it your way and now you’ve passed it on to all of us. 😊

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    1. Thank you, dear one. xo! 💗

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  2. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt post about your dad and his impact on your life. It’s great that you continue his legacy and find comfort in Emerson’s “Prayer of Thanks.” Cherishing the memories of his silly side and love for Easter treats is a wonderful way to keep his spirit alive.

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing that, Ritish. I’m so glad you liked the post and the prayer. Smiles and thanks to you…for reading and for sharing that lovely comment. 🤍😊🤍

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  3. Your Dad lives on in you for your daughter, Vicki. That’s what I remind myself when I wish our kids had been able to get to know either of my parents. Happy Easter!

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    1. What a lovely reminder, Jane. Yes, yes, the ‘goodness’ lives on. Thanks for that….and Happy Easter right back to you! 😘

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  4. This prayer is lovely–so simple, yet so profound. Thank you for sharing, Vicki! 💗

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    1. I’m so glad you like it, Erin. I think that’s why I love it so much. Simple but impactful. Xo! ❤️

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  5. Silly dads are the best! I love nothing more than to make my kids laugh and smile. I go to extreme lengths to make that happens. Lovely tribute to your father Vicki! Happy Easter 🙏

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    1. Thank you, AP! I love, love, love that you do that — with and for your kids. Making memories! 🥰xo!

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    2. It’s a beautiful tribute, as is the way you conduct yourself day in and day out.

      As I’m learning more about your father, Vicki, I can’t help but think that your father and my father would have been great friends had they had the chance to meet up!

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      1. Ohh….I love the sound of that, EW — what a beautiful thought, our papas being friends! Thank you so much for your sweet comment.
        Xo! ❤️

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  6. […] My post on my personal blog this morning shares my favorite ‘prayer of thanks’ – the one I think of most often when my dad’s on my mind. Take a look if you have a […]

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  7. I would have liked you dad—especially the goofball side of him!

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    1. Oh….you two would’ve had fun together, Julia! I just know it! 😎😜😎

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    Your dad sounds like quite a guy, Vicki. A shame he didn’t have more time, nor you with him. Clearly, he is never far from your thoughts. I know the feeling because I live it, too, with my own father.

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    1. Thank you for sharing that common bond between us, Dr. Stein. Keeping the dear ones near…in our heads and hearts means everything. ❤️

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  9. Gratitude and goodness – what a perfect name for this post, this prayer and your dad. And for me after I’ve read this because my heart feels full. Grateful for you, dear Vicki! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Aw, shoot. Now I’m filled to the brim…thanks to your sweet comment, Wynne. Thank you! 🥰🥰🥰

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  10. Lovely simple words to act as a reminder that gratitude does not have to be effusive, only genuine in its giving. Wonderful Vicki 🙂

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    1. Thank you for that, Deb. What a lovely point you make…simple is good…sometimes BETTER. Big smiles to you this morning! 🥰

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  11. A perfect post for Easter. A great message for upcoming Father’s Day too. I’ve been thinking a lot about my role now that my kid’s are grown and I keep coming back to how you described it: “finding the sunshine, no matter how dark the horizon” and “seeing the good.” He sounds like a great father. And I think Julia is right, their time on Earth may not have been timed perfectly, but your DD has him inside. I say that to my youngest all the time. My father died when my wife was pregnant, so he doesn’t have the memories that the other do, but he’s got my father in him. He’s got so many of his positive traits. It really hits me sometimes. Anyway, hope you have a joyous Easter with family and thanks for the wonderful stories! And remember go for the chocolate, skip the Peeps!!!!🐣

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    1. Thank you, Brian! What a lovely thing to share…that DD has all of the goodness within her. Funny you should say that…DD just did something so dear with her Aunt Lisa over Easter dinner. Kindness…sincerity…seeing the good. Her straightforward way of being a thoughtful listener DOES remind me of my dad. I love that your youngest has traits that remind you of your dad. So, so good! And yes…I’m following your sage advice about candy recommendations. 🤣 Hoping your day has been wonderful in every way. 😊😊😊

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  12. Thanks for sharing the importance of celebrating gratitude each and every day! And for sharing your father’s prayer for the day, he must have been a special one!

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    1. Thank you so much, Mary. He was a good human. Yes, yes! 🥰

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  13. Thank you for sharing this over the Easter period, Victoria. A reminder that each day is a new start and beginning.

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    1. You are very welcome, Davy — hope all is well in your world today! 😊

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  14. Nice prayer and tribute 💚

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    1. Thank you, sir. xo! 😊

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  15. Every night as I lay in bed ready to drift off to sleep I list 3 gratitudes from my day. It’s usually easy to find them. Not always but usually. I think it’s important to remember the blessings in our lives every day. Studies have even shown how gratitude improves mental health. Bernie

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    1. I believe! What a beautiful practice, Bernie. Thank you for sharing with me. 😉❤️😉

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  16. I was directed here by your HoTM post and was not surprised to discover that you too wish your daughter had more memories of your father. Another similarity is that you and I both STILL have them to bring a smile and a happy memory of their dearness.

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    1. Oh my…thank you so much! Yes…what a beautiful thing…memories are the best. xo! 😘

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