Picasso Knew


Where do creative sparks come from?  I’d say they come from everywhere and everything, if we’re as aware as we can be, given the daily, relentless distractions.

I need moments of pause to connect head and heart but slowing down to do so is often the first thing I’ll toss overboard and disregard when life gets choppy.  Push forward, head down, my brain says, but the instinct is counterproductive.  I’m learning that insight, for me, is tied to breath work and if I take beat or two, I’m able to make connections in new ways, see the inspiration around me.  Every day, ever present. 

I love the quote from Picasso because it reminds me that effort matters, but not to the exclusion of awareness.  Get to work – whatever that is – and in the productivity of doing, motivation and encouragement will ride along if I’m not pushing, exclusively, for productivity and completion. 

I’m married to a man with an artist’s heart but his artistry is in the realm of engineering and problem solving.  He creates – in his mind first.  I often catch him staring, zombie-like, into space, lately into our backyard.  He’s not daydreaming – he’s working – as his beautiful brain shifts into gear to tackle a conundrum.

A recent ‘dilemma du jour’ came yesterday related to re-engineering wonky solar panels on our deck.  Hubs was busy, busy in his thinking chair as he used that imperceptible muscle between his ears. Some days I imagine sparks flying out of his head or think of him as my very own “Sherlock” conjuring his ‘mind palace’ (which I believe were made-for-tv moments borrowed from the Greek poet Simonides of Ceos).  Ancient techniques, ways to organize information for maximum utility. Sherlock wasn’t the first.  But I digress…

Don’t mess with a good thing.  Hubster’s practice works.  His deep dives result in resolutions, innovative ideas and I think he’s an example of what Picasso meant.  Get to it…start the journey because creativity and inspiration will likely join you – but not if you’re waiting around for a thunderbolt of insight or a magic moment.  Move. Go. Think. Feel. Ponder. Do.

Vicki 😊

P.S. Is there more to this story? Of course! Check out my post on Heart of the Matter. I’m forever wrestling with “how to” write about family…how to find the inspiration and how to stay the course. Join me here…and there…to tell me what you think, what works for you. Xo!



58 responses to “Picasso Knew”

  1. Hi Victoria,

    Thanks for another thought-provoking post. I fully agree that the “push forward, head down “ approach is counterproductive. When I “try” to write, it’s never as good as tapping into the Source that desires to express writing through me. 🙏

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    1. Thanks for that, Art! I’m glad to know I’m not alone! It’s such a paradox…the harder we try, the less success we find. Your idea of ‘tapping in’ makes so much sense. Wisdom right there!😉

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  2. […] Picasso KNEW things. Check out my post on my personal blog, Victoria Ponders to find out why simple wisdom and slowing down might be the antidote to creative slumps…of […]

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  3. Timely post for me – our poetry circle members are spreading out across the downtown area, setting up shop in various businesses and writing poetry. Trying to brush off the feeling of being pressured to embrace the fun in the experience.

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    1. I love that, VJ! That sounds like an amazing venture for your poetry circle…very cool…but I can imagine there could be a compulsion to create…that might spoil the fun if taken too seriously. Thanks much for sharing! 🥰🥰🥰

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      1. You are welcome.

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  4. “Build it and they will come.” Imagine first; build, manifest, create second. What a concept! Your Hubs gives me permission to sit in my Lazygirl and pass the time sucking my thumb telling myself that I am being creative—I’m just not quite sure about what it is that I am creating. If I sit here long enough maybe I’ll get around to figuring it out. LOL

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    1. LOL! You and the hubs…in twin LazyBoy and LazyGirl chairs…solving the world’s problems? I’m in! I’ll bring all the snacks and beverages to keep you two creative wonders working and humming along. 😎💕😎

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  5. I’m not sure that I’m holding up the creativity end of the bargain, but count me in for the snacks and beverages. And pull up a chair and join us. The world needs all of the creative energy that it can get.

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    1. Deal! And sometimes…brief little naps contribute to the creativity, too — don’t they? 😘😉😘

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  6. Naps? (she says with an eyeball). Oh my goodness, naps are my favorite part of the day. There is just nothing better than a nap and a snack. Remember kindergarten with the naps and ginger snaps? Oh man….heaven on a bankie!

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    1. You’re making me giggle, Julia! I almost added the fact that I’d bring the blankies! Nothing better than a nap on a cool afternoon…with a blankie…or bankie…and after a snack. You and the hubs share a fondness for gingersnaps…but I’ll have a chocolate chip, okay? 🥰🥰🥰

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      1. Hey—gingery, chocolaty, blankie, bankie, tomato, toMAHo, nobody needs to ask me twice. I’m in. See ya there! 👏💕

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  7. One of the best pieces of advice for overcoming stalled creativity I ever read was: go clean a sink, any sink, and enjoy the sense of accomplishment that comes from seeing it shiny– and letting brain have a rest. Seems to work for me.

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    1. OMG…that’s akin to my oddball compulsion to clean grout, any grout? I wonder if I stole that from the wise person who said, ‘go clean a sink’? Cheers to giving the brain a rest. 😉

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      1. Cleaning a sink is much easier than cleaning grout… just saying!

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        1. Thanks for the hot tip!
          🤣😉🤣

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  8. I love the imagery of your hubster sitting back and looking relaxed while his brain is hard at work. Haha!! 🤓 And the quote from Picasso is great–I know I often find myself dilly-dallying, just waiting for inspiration to strike. I have to keep reminding myself, that is nor how it works!

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    1. Ummm…..you are the LAST person I would think of as “dilly-dallying”, dear Erin. I suspect your brain works the same as the hubster’s — lightning-fast processors…. sometimes undetectable ‘brilliance in action’. Hugs to you this morning! 🥰😎🥰

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      1. And hugs right back at you!! 🥰🥰

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  9. I definitely believe creativity comes when we allow it to come. Sitting and doing nothing is not allowing it to come. However when I teach creative writing I tell my students to start the pen moving and do not think. Just go and let Be. Amazing how creativity abounds. 💓

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    1. Thank you for sharing that perspective, Pam — especially from your wonderful role as a teacher of creative writing. I suspect your knowledge is endless…and I’m thrilled to hear that the often misunderstood ‘do nothing’ doesn’t actually work in your mind, either. “Start the pen moving and do not think.” So good! 🥰

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  10. I think our curiosity drives creativity too. But you’re right, if we get so busy functioning and not taking the time to let our minds wonder and wander, we won’t find inspiration. We need to take the time … give our minds the time to think … and to be inspired. Maybe it’s tied in with looking after our mental health – or it is for me – as I am not creative if I’m stressed and feeling pressured with marking and trying to prepare for classes – even though I like to use the creative processes for class design … and can even make marking fun
    Hope that makes sense as it just all kind of escaped as I’m sitting here typing

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    1. Oh my goodness….your comment is an example of letting creativity and goodness fly off your fingers, Brenda! Your thought about ‘wonder and wander’? So fabulous. Yes…and yes.
      xo! 🥰🥰🥰

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      1. That wonder and wander started as a typo but I let it run as I liked it too

        Maybe my meandering through my local park today helped 😁 not so sure about the blister though 😵🤣

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        1. Oh geez…sorry about the blister…but I LOVE knowing that your wonder/wander started off as a typo…that’s fabulous! 😉

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          1. Thought you’d appreciate it

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            1. You know me! LOL! xo!💓

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              1. I think we’re getting to know each other 😁😘

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                1. Aren’t we though — in the very best ways, given the distance, and you know, the whole Atlantic Ocean in between…🥰

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  11. Wouldn’t it be amazing if we could harness creativity? If we could say, “I’m waiting, come find me?”

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    1. Oh gosh, yes — I love that, Elizabeth. Far better than playing ‘hide and seek’, right? xo! 😘

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  12. For me, it is making space. Physical space in which to work, and mental space in which to create. Music helps, and open spaces (clutter kills creativity in my world) are a godsend.

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    1. Oh my…’clutter kills creativity’. I don’t think I ever figured out how to express that so succinctly. Yes. Visuals that are messy, out of order will draw my attention far too much. Thanks for that, Maggie. 😘

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  13. I think the key to creativity, Victoria, is making some internal space for it to meander. I find I get blocked when my brain’s bandwith is full. Your husband and Picasso are both right, as getting and doing something can create that space. Is it coincidence that some of the greatest minds were also doers?

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    1. What a point you make, Davy! Yes to the “doers” especially to those who know how to change things up…maybe like mushing 😉 to learn something new and exciting?

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      1. I also think, Victoria, the doing also makes sure those of us with idle thumbs are kept occupied.

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        1. Ah…true, true. Better to appear “occupied”…keep everyone guessing! 😉

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  14. I love your description of your hubster thinking. It reminds me of Dr. Scott Peck’s quip that the reason he got so much done is because he spent 2 hours a day doing nothing. When he called it his thinking time, people felt free to interrupt him so he switched to calling it praying time and people left him alone. 🙂

    And your wisdom to slow down and breathe – brilliant and exactly what I needed to hear. Such a fun and inspiring post!! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Wow — thanks for the reminder of Scott Peck’s point of view…I’d forgotten about that — so perfect, right? We need to do what we must in order to carve out that ‘precious time’. xo to you, dear one! 😘

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  15. I think you hit the nail on the head: “I need moments of pause to connect head and heart but slowing down to do so is often the first thing I’ll toss overboard and disregard when life gets choppy.” It’s a paradox, but when I force myself to slow down, I’m much more creative. Yes, naps are important. Now the workaholic in me, wants to fight back and say that forcing myself to sit at the laptop, even when I’m tired, does create discipline and habit. In the end, with most things in life, I suspect it’s everything in moderation. Love how you’ve written about this topic though. Interesting to think about!

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    1. Thank you, Brian! Maybe it’s just giving ourselves the liberty to step away from the keyboard…even for a moment or two…but come to think of it, the naps DO sound good. 😉Maybe just a short one!? Thanks for connecting with the ‘tossing overboard’ business, too. Glad to know I’m not the only one who skips the self-care…when I need it the most. 😉

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  16. Thanks for another perspective this morning Vicki! I’m learning a lot about the concept of creativity this week and finding that I may not be as lost as my Saturday HoTM post will imply 😉 In fact I have a follow-up mostly written already with inspiration from an earlier Brenda post and (yes, irony again) some of the same thoughts and descriptions of your husbands process today that I have realized I can apply to myself. We all come to our conclusions in different ways but one of those life lessons that is clear to me is that humans generally feel and think quite the same on many things when we really take the time to internalize each others words.

    Oh, grout cleaning…just no! 😉

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    1. Can you see me smiling, Deb? 😘 I am! I love how we can circle some of the same thoughts and ideas — without trying! I love your thought about ‘internalizing words’. That’s a brilliant way to think of the little gifts we give one another as we blog and share our thoughts. The number of meaningful connections we make is stunning…and I hadn’t realized that what you just said is so true. Listening, reading, learning…and internalizing…making meaning. Thank you for that — and I can’t wait to see Saturday’s post! I’d better get busy working on mine for Sunday…and yes…I’ll steer clear of the grout! 🤣😉🤣

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  17. If I’m stuck (creatively or otherwise) I often am helped by physical movement- running, yoga, mowing the lawn- anything!

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    1. Oh!! That’s so smart. Thanks for sharing that, Todd! 😎

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  18. I love that quote, Vicki!!!!! And oh, could I relate when you wrote “I need moments of pause to connect head and heart but slowing down to do so is often the first thing I’ll toss overboard and disregard when life gets choppy.” 😬😬😬 Thanks for the gentle reminder 🙂🙏🙏🙏

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    1. I’m so glad to know I’m not alone…those choppy waters make me fold…retreat…skip the stuff that’s good for me. We’ll both try to do better — how’s that? 😉 And I love that you love the Picasso quote. Thanks, Patti! 💕

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        1. ❤️❤️❤️

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  19. I sometimes follow this advice from Dr. Seuss – ” Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the things you can think up if only you try.”

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    1. Oh my! That’s SO perfect! Cheers to Dr. Seuss for giving us such wisdom. Thank you, Mary! 🥰

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