Heart Songs Within


Every day I DO want to change the world.  My ‘to do’ list often starts with what everyone else should be doing because I sometimes fancy myself brighter and better able to see opportunities for improvement in othersI’ve learned…such a fool’s gambit.  Instead, lead by example.  Do…what’s right…demonstrate that which matters most in actions, words, and deeds.

Rumi understood:


An outreach from a former student last week reminded me of an activity that I adored that involved poetry writing.  No…not in an English course – in a Psychology class, intended for personal growth and development. 

What is poetry?  My sweet student remembered that she was terrified when she saw a mention of “poetry writing” as an assignment on the syllabus. 

Yes…I know those words looked fearsome to students who dared enough to peek ahead about course content, assignments, and expectations.  She recalled expressing fears.  “I don’t write wellCan I have an alternative assignment?” she asked. While I don’t remember the chat with her, specifically, I recall what I typically told students who were afraid…even from a distance…about the word “poetry”: 

 Poems are heart songs.  What we’re feeling and thinking in the moment.  That is all. That is everything.

I’ve learned that introspection IS everything.  When I’m out of sorts or unsure, I’m quick to pinpoint the external “enemies” (red traffic lights in cahoots slowing my drive; bureaucratic paperwork hurdles and being ‘on hold’ endlessly; rainy days and Mondays…you get the idea). 

Truth?  If I can tune into my own voice…my space, my place in the world, in short order I can pinpoint  malaise and burgeoning misery…reset pesky, recurrent memories.  Often it’s that I need to say ‘no’…I need protein…I need to hydrate…I need to get quiet.  When I avoid myself, I become unwise.  Rumi understood.  I’d edit the last line just a smidge:  “Today I am wise so I am listening and changing myself.”

Vicki ❤

Where did the idea of writing poetry in a Psychology class come from, you might ask?  Take a peek at my post on Heart of the Matter today to learn the inspiration behind the activity.  A brilliant woman, a poet and scholar named George (whose parents were imaginative in naming their baby girl) led the way, inviting us to consider the limitless wisdom within.



32 responses to “Heart Songs Within”

  1. […] Good question.  When terrified Psychology students asked, I had a consistent answer.  Take a peek at today’s post on Victoria Ponders where I share my best response to prose-averse students.  It usually […]

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  2. ‘Poems are Heart songs’. I love that Vicki. Its so insightful. I think you’re right, we need to change our perspective sometimes, or encourage others to do so. I wish you’d been my psychology lecturer in my first year at Uni. I think it would have been a different, richer experience

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    1. You are the dearest! Thank you, Brenda — I bet we would’ve had a grand and wonderful time if we’d spent time together then! I’m so pleased to know you appreciate the perspective of ‘heart songs’… and I’m so glad that our paths have crossed here in the blogging world.
      Big hugs to you! 🥰🥰🥰

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      1. Thank you. Me too. Now I’m just considering how I can follow your lead and perhaps use the activity in my teaching next year – units that focus on reflection, awareness and personal and professional development.

        I must admit though, listening to the recording from the radio show, and the Crowdsourced poem, that trying to do this myself would bring up a lot of pain 😳

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        1. Yes…I think that’s the trick. Doing what’s comfortable and only that. Thanks so much, Brenda. 🥰

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    2. I, too, am enchanted by “poems are heart songs”! But not only by that, but by your skill as a teacher: imagine if you were “kinder” and let off that student to only do what they were already good at… That would be cruelty, not kindness! A great teacher such as yourself encouraged them to learn something new, we need more of you in the world!

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      1. Thank you, EW! I think you’re right! I benefited from being challenged — great point! Teachers who knew I could accomplish things before I did. Xo! ❤️

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  3. Thanks for these Heart songs. ❤️ I am so happy you mentioned this. Anita

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    1. Thank you so much, Anita! 😉😉😉

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  4. Hi Vicki! This really struck a chord with me: “Poems are heart songs. What we’re feeling and thinking in the moment. That is all. That is everything.”

    I’ve never been a fan of poetry and I’ve never really tried writing any. Maybe I need to give it a try.

    Have a wonderful Sunday!

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    1. Thank you so much, Michelle! What a beautiful thing to share. I appreciate knowing it ‘struck a chord’ for you. Let me know how it goes if you give it a whirl! xo! 🥰

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  5. What a beautiful post! I love how you went full-circle with the Rumi poem and identified that when we are chafing at the red light that it’s time to look within. That is so insightful!! A wonderful heart-song of a post, Vicki!! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Thanks, Wynne. So much! 🥰🥰🥰

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  6. Love that small distinction between being clever and wise 🙂 Knowing the importance of listening and learning and changing from within because really that’s where it all begins!

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    1. Seems that way to me…live and learn, live and learn! xo! 💕💕💕

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  7. Hey, wait a minute, what’s wrong with this? “I sometimes fancy myself brighter and better able to see opportunities for improvement in others.” I’m just trying to help my family. I’m just trying to help the guy driving in front of me who’s driving too slow. I’m just trying to help the guy behind the counter who’s taking too much time serving me. C’mon Vicki!!!! Ha, ha, I’m just kidding. I love the post. And yes, you’ve got me. Definitely a weakness of mine. Love Rumi’s poem. We can only change the world if we change ourselves.

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    1. LOL…I’m probably beginning to sound like a broken record…all this ‘self-talk’ that I share…I bet you’ve had all this stuff figured out looong ago, Brian, but thanks for playing along!
      🤣😘🤣

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      1. No, no, no broken record. I don’t know if you were thinking of me, but you’ve nailed me. I can be a know-it-all. Ha, ha. Quite the contrary, I love the self-talk and introspection. I learn so much from it, especially in hearing how others handle it. How others move from “me” to “we.” Great stuff Vicki.

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        1. That’s a great line…”from me to we”! ❤️😉❤️

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  8. “When I avoid myself, I become unwise. Rumi understood. I’d edit the last line just a smidge: “Today I am wise so I am listening and changing myself.” – Wonderful words of wisdoms from both you and Rumi!

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    1. Thank you so much, Mary! 🥰

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  9. An enchanting, pitch perfect intro to your Heart of the Matter post. The link there was worthwhile, too. Again, thank you, Vicki. One day, still far in the distance, you will live in the hearts you leave behind.

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    1. Dr. Stein…how do I thank you, sufficiently, for your kind words? Oh my. I’m touched and grateful…and…I’m glad to know the pieces fell together well. The crossover posts give me pause, looking for a separate ‘value added’, however possible. Your lovely comment — ‘enchanting and pitch perfect’ fills me to the brim.
      Sending love, kindness and a big hug your way. 🥰

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  10. A very insightful and helpful post. The Rumi quote and your take on it was exactly what I needed to read today!

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    1. That’s awesome! Thank you for reading and for sharing that, Elizabeth. 🥰😉🥰

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    The best leaders inspire by their actions even more than their words. I had a few bosses who could talk a good game, but their actions never quite lived up to their words. Fortunately, I also worked for some inspiring people who brought the best out of the people around them.

    I have been less active on the blogs this year (devoting more time to story writing), but I always appreciate your thoughtful insights. Have a great week, Vickie!

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    1. Hi, Pete! Yes…yes! I agree with you…about leaders who can take on roles w/o sufficient substance…as if they’re playing a part. (My dad often called this ‘all show, no go’.) 😎
      Thank you so much for stopping by and for your lovely comment…especially knowing that your attentions are more focused on other writing at the moment…can’t wait to learn more about that…Pete stories are ‘good stuff’. Big smiles! 😊😊😊

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  12. What a brilliant Rumi poem! And your edit is just as good! 😎🤩

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    1. It IS a good one. Actually, I don’t think I’ve run across a BAD Rumi quote, come to think of it…good stuff! 😎😎😎

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      1. Lol good point! 🙂🙂

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