Lauren Scott’s beautiful new book, “King Copper – Our Dog’s Life in Poetry” stole my heart.
Sadly, one of the common denominators in life is loss. When those I care about – friends, family, clients, former students – reach out and share their grief about losing a pet, there’s often a sense of shame about the depth and capacity of the torment. “After all,” (a dear one said recently, speaking about the unexpected passing of her cat), “she was just a pet”.
I saw what she was doing – attempting to minimize her pain with a reductive explanation. Self-talk intended to soothe, with words borrowed from a thoughtless one who used the phrase “just a pet” to offer consolation.
For many of us, our pets embody the qualities we long for in humans; especially those who disappoint us. Caring, loyal and loving, they ask only for those qualities in return – delighted by belly rubs and extra kibble now and then.
I was excited/nervous to read Lauren’s tribute to her beloved Copper.
Excited because I know it was a labor of utmost love for Lauren.
Nervous because I knew “King Copper” would prompt tears. Lauren writes with powerful poignancy.
I embraced every word. Some tore at me, expressions familiar and raw about losing a predictable household rhythm…wrapped in fur.
But so many words made me smile.
Scratch that.
Grin.
I’m keeping my copy of “King Copper” at my desk, sitting next to my favorite basket. Such a face…such a sweet soul. Maybe he’ll find his way to a bookshelf, but not yet.
This post is more than praise.
It’s my heartfelt endorsement…perhaps a plea. “King Copper” is a worthy addition to your family library. A book you’ll want to recommend – just as I have – to dear ones experiencing loss. There’s comfort on every page, thanks to Lauren and her family. Thanks to Copper himself:
“I never went away; I’m sitting by your side.
My love for you runs far and wide; I’ll never go astray.”
“Always By Your Side”, p. 40
Vicki 💝
Visit Lauren’s beautiful blog and learn more about “King Copper” here.
Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue | Eckhartz Press.
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