Victoria Ponders

Author of “Surviving Sue”

  • Lisa Gets the Last Word

    When people ask me to describe my sister Lisa’s personality, I share that she is sweet beyond belief and fragile, but I also acknowledge her ever-growing capacity to advocate for herself and assert her point of view. Lisa is simultaneously delightful and determined with a sense of humor like a steam roller.  Coming in. Make…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Thank You, Patti!

    One of the biggest blogging blessings…and there are many…is the introduction to fellow travelers in life who share some of the same foibles, fears and triumphs.   Connecting with Patti Moore Wilson was a delight – in the exchange of comments as we read each other’s posts and as we enjoy those of fellow bloggers. …

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Learning & Growing

    Thanks so much for continuing to ride along as I share more about “Surviving Sue“.  I can’t believe it’s only been three months since her debut!  (Hmm…Three months or three years?) I’ve learned so much about the process of publishing and promoting but even more… about myself. A lot of personal growth has been packed…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Book Clubs!

    I have some fun “Peek Inside” news to share!  “Surviving Sue” has been picked up by a couple of book clubs – and I’m thrilled.  I’m continuing to receive wonderful feedback from readers. Sometimes in the form of lovely praise, sometimes follow-up questions about aspects of the book and nuances about the many characters in…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Pause It, Name It

    Hey, friends – I promised a few weeks ago that I would eventually get around to sharing more about my toolkit for dealing with complicated emotions – especially those related to my mom, Sue.  As a counseling professional, I utilize my degrees and training and generally feel confident about helping others, but when I’m the…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Sue’s Big Heart

    I adore the anonymous quote I snipped in (above).  When readers have asked about my capacity for forgiveness, the secret sauce that helped me survive Sue, I often think of this wisdom.  It was my task to heal so I could better understand the mix of madness and love that bubbled within my mom.  One…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Hide & Seek

    My mom, Sue, was a tortured artist.  Throughout her life she tried to soothe herself and fill the empty spaces within by leaning into her creative side, especially painting.  I included a few references to her artwork in “Surviving Sue” and wrote about her apology art a few months ago. Exploring her feelings with paint…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Six-Word Style

    I’ve continued to compile a list of FAQs from readers of “Surviving Sue”, my memoir about my mom’s complicated life and one of the recurring queries is about building resilience.  Despite my background as a counselor/therapist, I’m cautious about highlighting any one specific technique or habit that helped guide my healing journey because the process…

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  • Sue’s Big Satchel

    At what point does an object become a character, a featured player in a story?  I wondered about that the other day when a reader of “Surviving Sue” chuckled about how much she connected with the descriptions of “Sue’s big purse” or “Sue’s behemoth of a satchel” in the book.  Yep, my mom’s favorite accessory…

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  • Peek Inside: “Surviving Sue” – Lit Fest

    Hey, friends – I felt like many of you were with me in spirit on Saturday at the Printers Row Lit Fest.  What a great event!  I had the best helpers EVER – husband Paul and our daughter, Delaney.  We enjoyed every bit of the adventure – gorgeous Chicago on a sunny day with temps…

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